i am leaning more towards argentina's mendoza right now. i know i said i wanted beachfront, but i could always travel to a third location and vacation or rent there is a strong expat coummunity there and it is cheap. i could go to a beach like margarita island, venezuela, but with unstable political situation would not buy there. i personally like chavez, but not if i am a property owner.
as for brazil, it sounds great, but scared off about crime. panama seems pricey, don't know much about honduras.
You are sounding more sensible than you did at first (limited data; more detail helps). I am glad you are questioning the idea of buying right away. It is interesting that you only mention hubby later in the broadcast. There is something you are not telling us.
Think about it as a path that is new to you, to a place new to you. Would you consider walking the Adirondak Trail with as little information as you have given us? Would you take a bus to Newark? Your future is not something that can be bought out of a catalog.
You have a great idea. Now you have homework to do.
Excuse me for being a little pushy. I used to live in the NYC area. In my experience, New Yorkers always had nerve, but they didn't always have brains. You seem to have both. Now, DO YOUR HOMEWORK!!! or expect to lose a lot of money in the process.
If starting a business is vital to your transition, forget it. I looked into Costa Rica years ago with this in mind. Starting a business as an expat is a sucker's game. Also in Mexico. Also in Belize. At least Mexico makes it difficult to do. Mexico has a soft spot in their head for Yankees (God only knows why). There is an old saying in Belize: The way to have a million dollars in Belize is to come in with two million.
What is wrong with taking it a step at a time? As I pointed out above, you have the luxury of being able to wander around for a year without monetary risk--unless you start peeling off those greenbacks in front of the locals. (Is "tonto" in your Spanish vocabulary?)
By the way, Uruguay is NOT extremely expensive (unless you want to live in Puente del Este, in which case I am wasting your time). I suggest that you purchase this e-book (as I have):
http://www.escapeartist.com/e_Books/Uruguay/Live_In_Uruguay.html
It has a ring of credibility, which is not something that can be said of everything that comes out of Escape Artist.
Bon chance, mon ami.
Ed