Nemo2
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I think I'll take her 90+ if I can enjoy the physical and mental health she has.
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I think I'll take her 90+ if I can enjoy the physical and mental health she has.
We are doing our financial planning with the goal of living to age 105 and our last check will bounce.
My parents passed at 70 and 80. My DW's mother is currently 96 and HER mother lived to age 101...so it is not crazy to think 105 may happen to one of us. If we do not make it that far, heirs will get additional funds.
I have no idea how long I’ll live...
I would like to live only as long as I have a good quality of life. For me this means cognitive ability, mobility, and at least some people/relationships that are important to me....
The youngsters here probably are the ones saying "85 is good enough", but ask them again when they're 84 and you'll certainly not get "85 is good enough", even if they're in poor health. See, they'll have found out that there's a different batch of stuff to live for than there was 20 years earlier.
Also, I think a lot of what we see here is a reflection on the steady declining health over their last decade of our grand parents and parents lives, and wanting to avoid that fate. But your 85 and your grandparents' 85 isn't the same thing...there's a lot going on to improve "healthspan".
That is my strategy for us. Plus it gives me peace of mind that there is a nice cushion in case of a very nasty period ahead.
But what makes you think checks will be around when you are 105 ?
Our sources of income includes SSA checks (DW and I will start at age 70) and slow withdrawal from our nest egg. We assume 3% real growth on our investments and then calculate how much we could withdraw each year to reach $0 at my age 105. (Excel Goal Seek function...easy peasy) We have never spent the amount we could withdraw each year, so the pile continues to grow slowly.
This approach is fairly conservative and we have little concern about the checks not continuing to come (naive?). We may have changes in how SSA will work, but expect some form of payment to continue for the rest of our lives. So far, we have purchased a vacation home, World Cruise, 5 week Safari, and have 54 days (All Inclusive) each year in the Dominican Republic paid for until my age 102...which can be passed down to heirs if we cannot make it. We only spend 2/3 of what we could spend each year with all of that. We believe our checks will continue.
At my last oncologist visit one of the things he said to me, was that at least he had bought me another 3 years.
Later that phrase stuck with me and I got pretty depressed thinking about it.
All this cancer treatment and at the worst, it got me another 3 years of life.
A friend of mine just died in her sleep at 62 with no known health issues. I try not to think about it because there is no control. Definitely don’t want to live if I don’t have my mind. A friend of mine had so much chemo which saved her but gave her early onset Alzheimer’s. Interesting also that for some medical procedures/treatments for everyone it saved the harm rate may be higher than the saved rate. I was surprised to read this so it really pays to ask this question when something is recommended.