Morgan22
Recycles dryer sheets
Bold by me. I cannot imagine the mess created by beneficiaries on a joint account. Divorce for one and many other legal issues would bring lawsuits. If you had a joint account and one of you wanted to change that but the other didn't, VG would be in the middle. Huge mess. That's why we have an attorney and a living trust for our joint assets completely outside the VG family.
If you have a simple estate plan then having beneficiaries on a joint account is not messy. If spouses do not seem to be on the same page then I guess it would make sense to have an attorney involved with trusts set up. The attorney could play middle man.
DH and myself are on the same page. We only have 2 grown children and we agree that they should inherit everything 50/50 per stirpes. I can't imaging my DH or myself deciding to wanting to cut off one of the kids sometime in the future. But as Koolau would say, "YMMV".