...We are torn as we live next door to both our sons. We own each of their homes outright. Side by side by side... We live next door to our youngest son and his family... He works half the time, several DWI’s and she lays around all day and does nothing. We own the home they live in and it’s a total wreck... Our oldest son lives 2 doors down from us, in another home we own. He is disabled due to severe medical issues not of his accord. He draws SSDI and he pays us an amount he can pay us every month.
...We have been basically supporting our youngest son since he moved out at 18. He is 34 now and his maturity is still that of a teenager’s. We are tired of buying him cars, paying light bills, water bills etc etc etc at least 75% of the time... Oh we have tried to talk to our youngest son about getting help but he doesn’t listen...