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Maybe I'll get blasted for being direct, but FWIW.
One of our golf group, who was never the most positive guy, was diagnosed with Parkinson's last Fall. Obviously that's not easy to deal with, and he has been trialing different meds to slow the progression I assume. While he has [-]good[/-] fair days and bad days, he is always more negative than ever and he's dragging us all down. On the one hand we understand and want to be supportive. On the other, it's not much fun to have him around. He's begun to have hand tremors, and his golf game has gone downhill, that is demoralizing. Last time I rode with him, he was having a particularly bad day, and he volunteered 'I can't remember the last time I enjoyed a round of golf...' Just not a recipe for an enjoyable activity with friends.
I don't get the impression a deteriorating golf game is going to get him to drop out. I think he's more determined than ever to keep his connections with us, and I get that.
None of us know what to do, so we just try to be supportive and continue to include him, even though it's not much fun anymore. We do try to make sure we all share our 'time in the barrel' with him.
I assume some of you have had similar experiences. Is there a better approach for all concerned, him and the rest of us?
One of our golf group, who was never the most positive guy, was diagnosed with Parkinson's last Fall. Obviously that's not easy to deal with, and he has been trialing different meds to slow the progression I assume. While he has [-]good[/-] fair days and bad days, he is always more negative than ever and he's dragging us all down. On the one hand we understand and want to be supportive. On the other, it's not much fun to have him around. He's begun to have hand tremors, and his golf game has gone downhill, that is demoralizing. Last time I rode with him, he was having a particularly bad day, and he volunteered 'I can't remember the last time I enjoyed a round of golf...' Just not a recipe for an enjoyable activity with friends.
I don't get the impression a deteriorating golf game is going to get him to drop out. I think he's more determined than ever to keep his connections with us, and I get that.
None of us know what to do, so we just try to be supportive and continue to include him, even though it's not much fun anymore. We do try to make sure we all share our 'time in the barrel' with him.
I assume some of you have had similar experiences. Is there a better approach for all concerned, him and the rest of us?
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