I'm always amazed at some of the members of this forum who take very low (<1%) WR when they could easily triple or quadruple it SAFELY. You can't take it with you so why leave so much $$ behind? One only gets a single go around in life.
I am on track to spend 0.53% this year which I agree, is just plain ridiculous.
It is difficult to think of anything to spend it on, that would be of value to me. Spending money on cr*p that has no value to me, would just leave me feeling empty and sad. I have been poor earlier in my life and just can't bring myself to throw money away like that.
So anyway, this is why I pay close attention to threads like the Blow That Dough thread, and why I started that Amazon thread. I think, or at least hope, that spending money for pleasure is a learnable behavior. I don't like to travel, but despite that, surely there must be some way to spend money that has value to me. Sometimes I find something! Then, whether it is costly or cheap, I buy it. I was looking at the splurge thread and thinking about another new laptop. So, I browsed on Amazon but nothing jumped out at me, and my present laptop is still pretty nice and suitable for my needs.
As for extravagant gifts and gargantuan donations, I prefer to leave most of that sort of thing until after my demise. To me it makes sense for that money to be my emergency money until I croak, and it will be just as useful to loved ones and charities at that time as it would be now. Meanwhile my gifts are average, substantial but not over-the-top, and I leave it at that.
I’m confused about withdrawal rates. DH will be 70 next year and I’ll turn 70 in four years. Isn’t there a mandatory minimum distribution rate used based on the year you turn 70 as of December 31? I read quite often about members here take a very small amount from their IRA. What am I missing?
I’m confused about withdrawal rates. DH will be 70 next year and I’ll turn 70 in four years. Isn’t there a mandatory minimum distribution rate used based on the year you turn 70 as of December 31? I read quite often about members here take a very small amount from their IRA. What am I missing?
I'm in the "it's work to spend" category, and also, the things I buy can take a lot of time.
First, I find it hard to buy something without a lot of research and comparative shopping. So that takes time and effort. Then, after I get an item, it might take a while to integrate it into my life. And of course if I'm doing that, I'm not figuring out what I want to buy next...
Simple.
I have spent a lifetime learning to LBYM and feel proud of the result and not envy etc. I have taught myself to be immune to the tactics of Madison Ave and their attempts to make me feel inadequate if I don't purchase their product or service.
I am talking about physical brain chemistry here to take advantage of the neuroplasticity in one's brain.
I will gladly take a lower than needed SWR if there is nothing that I need/crave and I am truly happy, rather than spend the money just for the sake of "spend it before I die" and risk letting Madison Ave back into my psyche and jeopardize my current happiness and contentment.
Additionally having significant capital reserves help manage the anxiety of the possibility that challenges can be thrown your way.
-gauss
I'm pretty close to being able to retire now. I should be able to retire at 45 in 3 years if I want to.
My current plan is to live off of the dividend income from Vanguard's US and Foreign High Dividend Yield Index funds in my taxable brokerage account. That would be similar to a 3% withdrawal rate.
The benefit of this strategy is I have a very high confidence in the dividend income growing pretty much every year. I want my income and assets grow over time. So, I can have a more expensive lifestyle as time goes on.
One thing I would like to do once I have enough money is to own more than one condo/apt. So that I can live up north during the summer and down south in the winter. I'm sick of all the heat and humidity, but I'm pretty sure if I lived up north I'd be equally sick of the snow/ice.
I know I will end up leaving a lot of money on the table eventually, but it is what it is. I would have liked to have retired already at 40, but it doesn't really matter. I can suck it up for a few more years.
At age 60 I'll have a pension (17 years vested currently) plus access to 401k/Roth. I'll have a stupid amount of excess money then. My withdrawal rate can drop to 0% at that point.
Out of curiosity, I just looked at the $5M/week yacht rental, and relative to his net worth, Gates paid much less than what I have to pay for a lowly Airbnb with my net worth. Darn!
My parents did the ultra low WR and ended up giving us kids all the dough. But they overdid it in my opinion, never giving themselves even a small treat now and then.
We saw this big yacht sitting unused in Friday Harbor and found it online. Impressive, although I don’t know about “gracefully discrete” as it was very noticeable. I think it was available for around $200,000 per week for 12 passengers. https://www.yachtcharterfleet.com/luxury-charter-yacht-22304/legend.htm
Still, way out of my budget...
My kid wants to learn how to skate and downhill ski. I can get the account # to his 529 if education is something you adorn more? All kidding aside, it's hard to switch from Saving to Spending, I see it with DF.Our WR has been about 2.5%. We have everything we need/want. We travel, we eat out, we gift, we donate ... Not sure where we would spend more money on.
I suggested he gift some while he is alive, but that does not interest him either. He is struggling with the taxes, and when RMD comes I don't want to be near him. His SWR is currently 0%, 2 years into retirement. Talk about having a spending problem, he has a problem...he doesn't know how to spend! (okay in all fairness, he did remodel the entire home, bought a new 2500, went on 2 cruises and 3 trips, upgraded to the biggest OLED TV he could find, bought a new PC to run his new VR).