You say he would be "wealthy" quickly. Is that how you measure success and happiness? Let me ask you, whats the point to being frugal? Is it to just have a stash of cash sitting somewhere?Thanks! I just read the reply's and it has brought some new light on the subject. I take your word that he is on the right and has done well for himself. I know it's just me but if he wouldn't spend so much he could be very wealthy in a hurry. Lol If I would of been making what he did when I started I would of been doing all of things different with my money.
I'm very proud of him but my frugalness always comes in to play. He does know that he will receive an inheritance someday. I really don't know if that is a factor in his plan or not. Knowing him I honestly would say he isn't banking on it. He has never and I mean never asked for money or help. If he can't get it done he will find some one to help him or gets things done some way or another.
Yes I would love to see him find a future wife and have some grand kids but not holding my breath. Lol If that happened then I would have more to worry about.
Maybe he had enough of frugality growing up, and is getting it out of his system?
I think you should be very proud and relieved.
Thanks! I just read the reply's and it has brought some new light on the subject. I take your word that he is on the right and has done well for himself. I know it's just me but if he wouldn't spend so much he could be very wealthy in a hurry. Lol If I would of been making what he did when I started I would of been doing all of things different with my money.
I'm very proud of him but my frugalness always comes in to play. He does know that he will receive an inheritance someday......
Maybe he had enough of frugality growing up, and is getting it out of his system?
I think this is what happened to me!
But I still stayed relatively frugal. I just made sure I made a heck of a lot more money than my parents so that I could spend a lot more and still be LBYM.
I'd be more concerned with you. Son sounds like he knows what he is doing. Are you spending enough? Your son sounds like he doesn't really need a big inheritance.Thanks! I just read the reply's and it has brought some new light on the subject. I take your word that he is on the right and has done well for himself. I know it's just me but if he wouldn't spend so much he could be very wealthy in a hurry. Lol If I would of been making what he did when I started I would of been doing all of things different with my money.
I'm very proud of him but my frugalness always comes in to play. He does know that he will receive an inheritance someday. I really don't know if that is a factor in his plan or not. Knowing him I honestly would say he isn't banking on it. He has never and I mean never asked for money or help. If he can't get it done he will find some one to help him or gets things done some way or another.
Yes I would love to see him find a future wife and have some grand kids but not holding my breath. Lol If that happened then I would have more to worry about.
Growing up with a very conservative frugal life style and living my life that way is hard sometime to see my son live it differently.
He was raised to be a save and he had to work for his money and his first job was at 12 picking corn in fields for market. Worked after school and all summers till he went to college. When he was 18 he started his career job and is still at the same company and has worked himself up the ladder.
He makes a low 6 figure salary but he spends a lot of money. This is the part I have a hard time with but he is 31 so I really don't have a lot to say. He saves a lot of money also and has 401K plus a pension/IRA and a savings account. He saves monthly I know that.
He skies, owns a large boat, fishes, hunts, snowmobiles and goes on trips each year some place in the US. He is gone all the time doing something and many out of state hunting and sporting activities.
He is a good man but it drives me crazy all the stuff he has and places he goes. I would have never did all those things grown up because it wasn't a frugal life.
My question is he on the right track enjoying life as life goes by or am I wrong to even think he shouldn't be doing what he is doing?
I would say his net worth is about 400K plus a full pension after 30 years.
Oh, mom, you'd worry if he was making all that money and never having fun but saving every penny. He's better than fine.
signed,
another mom
Let me ask you, whats the point to being frugal?
Is it to just have a stash of cash sitting somewhere?
If I could trade some of my financial security for having enjoyed life more when I was younger and healthier, I probably would.
My question is he on the right track enjoying life as life goes by or am I wrong to even think he shouldn't be doing what he is doing?
I would say his net worth is about 400K plus a full pension after 30 years.