FinanceDude
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Due to my sister's death, I have a lot of her things stored in my basement, along with a 10X20 storage unit in the city where she lived where the "big stuff" is.
My sister always bought very high quality stuff, and most of these things are almost brand new. DW is adamant about going through everything my sister had TOGETHER, and I am fighting it for a couple reasons:
1)I am a thrower/neatnik, and she is a hoarder.
2)I kept my nose out of it when her father died, and her brother and her decided what to keep, etc.
3)My wife has an idea of an informal "shrine area" where we would celebrate her memory with some of her favorite books, trinkets, favorite chair, etc. I think that's a little overboard.............
Thankfully, DW is giving me some space on this, but I feel it coming to a head, because I need to address the situation so I can move on in my head about her being gone.........
I think I know the answer, but would like any advice you guys can give. Thanks in advance for your help,
FinanceDude
My sister always bought very high quality stuff, and most of these things are almost brand new. DW is adamant about going through everything my sister had TOGETHER, and I am fighting it for a couple reasons:
1)I am a thrower/neatnik, and she is a hoarder.
2)I kept my nose out of it when her father died, and her brother and her decided what to keep, etc.
3)My wife has an idea of an informal "shrine area" where we would celebrate her memory with some of her favorite books, trinkets, favorite chair, etc. I think that's a little overboard.............
Thankfully, DW is giving me some space on this, but I feel it coming to a head, because I need to address the situation so I can move on in my head about her being gone.........
I think I know the answer, but would like any advice you guys can give. Thanks in advance for your help,
FinanceDude