W2R
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I have a large number of activities planned for my retirement, and have thought beyond just selling my house, moving north, buying another house, and becoming familiar with my new community (not to mention spending more time with Frank). I have a list of 20+ activities that I love or would love but never seem to have time to do. These range from birdwatching to taking up the piano again, growing roses again, becoming probably the very last baby boomer to complete a 10K, and much more.
However, the author of this article says that she planned as I have but still found retirement to be unrewarding and disappointing for her. She discusses many aspects of retirement, and here is one of many thoughts that interested me:
Her viewpoint is certainly food for thought, though it is hard for me to visualize what her problems really are and how this could be. I don't seem to feel this way during vacations, at any rate.
However, the author of this article says that she planned as I have but still found retirement to be unrewarding and disappointing for her. She discusses many aspects of retirement, and here is one of many thoughts that interested me:
Before I retired, I'd thought I would have world enough and time to do everything I had dreamed about doing once I was no longer confined by a job. But after my retirement honeymoon in Palm Springs, suddenly time seemed to slip through my fingers. I'd be at my desk by 8 a.m., checking e-mail and reviewing my "to do" list, which kept getting longer. Just like other retirees, I'd brag to anyone who would listen: "It's hard to believe. I'm busier now than when I was working." But this busy schedule only heightened the hollow feeling inside.
Her viewpoint is certainly food for thought, though it is hard for me to visualize what her problems really are and how this could be. I don't seem to feel this way during vacations, at any rate.
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