WhoDaresWins
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I have a conundrum concerning housing.
I don't know how long I'll be able to live alone, but I really like being alone. Can one live in senior housing (of whatever sort) without constantly being told you have to socialize (it's for your own good)?
I have a vision of myself throwing something at the fifth or so person to tell me I shouldn't sit by myself.
Solitude and quiet are the greatest boons of retirement.
I have come to appreciate living alone, too. My dog is an excellent companion, always happy to see me. I am surrounded by yakking people all day and listen to mostly complaints and problems in the office. I have friends nearby and belong to a gym where I can take a class if I desire company. I bought a new house five years ago so I have had no repairs to date and I can hire out any tasks I don't want to do myself. There are a few older kids who live nearby and they don't bother me at all. I don't think I would like living in an age-restricted community.