Khan
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I there any protocol on inviting someone to a wedding and paying them to attend?
I there any protocol on inviting someone to a wedding and paying them to attend?
Khan, are you expecting them to travel, and are they short of funds? I think in that particular case, it is kind to offer to pay their way.
The way you phrased your query, though, makes it sound like they wouldn't go near your wedding unless there was something in it for them. If that is what you meant, then the answer is Nooooooooooooooo!
Amethyst
There is a vast difference in paying for a ticket and hotel room for someone to attend vs. "I'll give you $100 if you show up at my wedding".Most of my friends are too poor to fly/drive to Florida for event. Should I pay beyond several days lodging?
There is a vast difference in paying for a ticket and hotel room for someone to attend vs. "I'll give you $100 if you show up at my wedding".
Guess it's all in the phrasing.
Marriage is for SS and medicare and assisted living and health/car insurance.
A business arrangement with pre-nup and mission statements
Marriage is for SS and medicare and assisted living and health/car insurance.
A business arrangement with pre-nup and mission statements
And sex?
There has been no mention of love.
Is that old-fashioned, or perhaps we are all too old and seasoned for that?
It's too early to tell, but "marrying for love" may be in the process of becoming one of those economic privileges of the post-WW2 era that is slowly eroding, much like so many other aspects of our economy and society.There has been no mention of love.
Is that old-fashioned, or perhaps we are all too old and seasoned for that?
At our age, "love" does not mean the same thing as when we were 18. It may be more about companionship than romance, but it still helps.I was thinking the same thing ! If not love a very very strong friendship !
And sex?
Definitely on my mission statement...