Hey guys, I've really appreciated the advice I've gotten from you guys over the past ~14 years. I know I haven't posted a whole lot... but I'm "in a place," right now... and really would like some reflection from others.
I first posted back here in 2007
Then again in 2019
And again in 2021
I apologize in advance, I really don't want my post to sound bragy (I guess), and I'm not asking for pity either (I apologize for even suggesting this) ... but I think I'm burnt out.
Financially things are going well... (and again, I am so sorry for laying out this out, but just want to lay it out like when you speak to a doctor)...
I left my previous job (from my post in 2021) and about doubled my salary. I make about $200k, and with rental income, and my spouse's income, we bring home about $260k a year now.
We have a rental which we break even on (my fault for not being a more aggressive landlord, I leave about $800 on the table compared to going rate). But we have about $500k in equity in that home right now.
We have a nice home that we live in, with about $200k in equity. We also have some vacant land which doesn't do anything.
I have about 350k in retirement accounts, $150k in personal investment / savings accounts, and a few other assets. No debt except the mortgage for the two homes. A 529 for the daughter.
I like what I do, but I feel like I'm completely burnt out. I have very little enthusiasm anymore for my work, even though most people would give their right arm to be working in the field that I do, and do what I do... and I realize this, which makes me feel really bad for feeling sorry for myself because I know how lucky I am.
I'm 44... my family is great, finances are great, home life is great... but I'm tired of working. At the same time, I know that I would go insane if I wasn't working.
I'm also finishing up another degree (I have like 5 of them). I have one more class to get this next Masters degree, which has been a lot of work... but I'm a perfectionist so I force myself to get straight As every time. I'm so totally burnt out that I don't know what to do.
Live is great... I'm not depressed, and again, I apologize if any of this sounds bragy or lame... and I don't want sympathy... because I realize how lucky I am. Just looking to see if others have felt this way, if it's maybe a mid-life crisis? I don't know...
I have millions of hobbies, and would love to do them if I was retired... but what drives me is wanting to do big things... I'm just at a loss.
Am I making sense? Negative comments welcome to, I appreciate it...
Thank you...
I first posted back here in 2007
Then again in 2019
And again in 2021
I apologize in advance, I really don't want my post to sound bragy (I guess), and I'm not asking for pity either (I apologize for even suggesting this) ... but I think I'm burnt out.
Financially things are going well... (and again, I am so sorry for laying out this out, but just want to lay it out like when you speak to a doctor)...
I left my previous job (from my post in 2021) and about doubled my salary. I make about $200k, and with rental income, and my spouse's income, we bring home about $260k a year now.
We have a rental which we break even on (my fault for not being a more aggressive landlord, I leave about $800 on the table compared to going rate). But we have about $500k in equity in that home right now.
We have a nice home that we live in, with about $200k in equity. We also have some vacant land which doesn't do anything.
I have about 350k in retirement accounts, $150k in personal investment / savings accounts, and a few other assets. No debt except the mortgage for the two homes. A 529 for the daughter.
I like what I do, but I feel like I'm completely burnt out. I have very little enthusiasm anymore for my work, even though most people would give their right arm to be working in the field that I do, and do what I do... and I realize this, which makes me feel really bad for feeling sorry for myself because I know how lucky I am.
I'm 44... my family is great, finances are great, home life is great... but I'm tired of working. At the same time, I know that I would go insane if I wasn't working.
I'm also finishing up another degree (I have like 5 of them). I have one more class to get this next Masters degree, which has been a lot of work... but I'm a perfectionist so I force myself to get straight As every time. I'm so totally burnt out that I don't know what to do.
Live is great... I'm not depressed, and again, I apologize if any of this sounds bragy or lame... and I don't want sympathy... because I realize how lucky I am. Just looking to see if others have felt this way, if it's maybe a mid-life crisis? I don't know...
I have millions of hobbies, and would love to do them if I was retired... but what drives me is wanting to do big things... I'm just at a loss.
Am I making sense? Negative comments welcome to, I appreciate it...
Thank you...