A native South Texan, I (with my husband) have owned a home in the SF Bay Area for 30 years this summer. We owned in north San Diego County for 3 years before that. I lived in Orange County for 11 years before THAT (and went to the same high school as ItDontMeanAThing, 2 years behind him!)
I suppose the Texan never really filters out, evidenced by the way I drop my y'alls now and then, but really, I don't feel an affinity with the state of my birth, although I have considered relocating to Austin because I have lots of family still there. It's too dang hot and dry for my taste, and I don't like snakes or scorpions or skeeters, and I don't want to live inside the house with the windows all closed for months out of the year.
I also don't like the 35 different shades of beige down there.
Over the past few years we have considered relocating to Oregon or Washington, since I have friends (and until recently, my mom) up there. It's too soggy much of the year, though, and I have learned over the past few years that the gloomy parts of the year make me cry.
Weather aside, we also look at expenses. We run our A/C maybe 10 days a year here, if I have been working in our back garden and get too hot. We spend a LOT of our time outdoors -- in fact, I am at a bistro table outside now on the patio, looking at all the flowers in bloom, listening to the fountain, stuff like that. Can't do that as much in other places, bug and moisture free (whether rain or humidity).
We have also looked at property taxes. No state income tax in WA, but property taxes are high. No sales tax in OR, but they'd tax my small CA pension, all the while CA would still do the same. My medical costs in OR would be cheaper, as far as premiums, but the prescription anti-depressants would run me broke, as would the travel to escape to sunnier climes, like Maui.
Things have changed a LOT here in the past 30 years, and many changes we do not like. We are considering moving down to the Central Coast, nearer the water and the wineries, and we think that just might work, even though the airport is 200 miles or so away.
Ultimately, whatever California's politics, other states are too hot, others are too cold, and this one seems just about right
For as long as it lasts.
Sincerely,
Goldilocks