38Chevy454
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Just curious if you visit your relative's gravesites? With any set frequency?
I do not, even when I lived closer. Now I am couple thousand miles away so it is not possible unless I make a trip. DW is same as me, does not go to gravesites. Both DW and me are the highest generation in our respective families: parents generation and older are all gone. Maybe it's related to my Christianity beliefs, but I don't see any value in visiting the dead remains of a person, their soul is long gone. I even think the whole graveyard and burial is a waste of land, just cremate me and scatter my ashes somewhere I liked to be at. There won't be a formal gravesite for me
I do not, even when I lived closer. Now I am couple thousand miles away so it is not possible unless I make a trip. DW is same as me, does not go to gravesites. Both DW and me are the highest generation in our respective families: parents generation and older are all gone. Maybe it's related to my Christianity beliefs, but I don't see any value in visiting the dead remains of a person, their soul is long gone. I even think the whole graveyard and burial is a waste of land, just cremate me and scatter my ashes somewhere I liked to be at. There won't be a formal gravesite for me