Condolences on the loss of your mother.
IMHO, your sister should buy you out of the house. Unless you want to give it to her. Before you give it to her, ask yourself how you will feel when she turns around and sells it in a year or two, realizing that her dream of a bi-coastal life is impractical.
If she takes over the house, whether she buys you out or you give it to her, you should not participate with any of the expenses of keeping it up. If she can't afford those, then she can't afford it, period.
After the death of a loved one people's minds are muddled. It is hard to make good decisions. I've witnessed this is both mine and my husband's family. Therefore, I think it is ok if you let the house sit there for a few months. Maybe heads will clear. I believe that a specific will is extremely important. We have told our executor to sell real estate and split it evenly. If someone wants a house or piece of land they need to buy it from the estate at appraised value. Luckily we have lived in and sold several homes. I don't think any of ours have sentimental value attached.
IMHO, your sister should buy you out of the house. Unless you want to give it to her. Before you give it to her, ask yourself how you will feel when she turns around and sells it in a year or two, realizing that her dream of a bi-coastal life is impractical.
If she takes over the house, whether she buys you out or you give it to her, you should not participate with any of the expenses of keeping it up. If she can't afford those, then she can't afford it, period.
After the death of a loved one people's minds are muddled. It is hard to make good decisions. I've witnessed this is both mine and my husband's family. Therefore, I think it is ok if you let the house sit there for a few months. Maybe heads will clear. I believe that a specific will is extremely important. We have told our executor to sell real estate and split it evenly. If someone wants a house or piece of land they need to buy it from the estate at appraised value. Luckily we have lived in and sold several homes. I don't think any of ours have sentimental value attached.