Westernskies
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... why aren't we out there helping where it is needed?
Who says we aren't?
... why aren't we out there helping where it is needed?
Talk is cheap, it's easy to preach on the internet, we can blather on all we want, but with the skills we all must have if we have been able to achieve our FIRE goals, why aren't we out there helping where it is needed?
It's a complicated issue if you try to go out and do it on your own. But like a forum member said, he gives to charities that are able to screen and help people.It's a general question, I don't know if you are or aren't, however I do know that I am not and it's making me question why I am not. If I feel sorry for people like these, and I know some things that could be done to help them, why aren't I getting involved?
Seriously, it is tough to help people.
Have a few drinks does not make one an alcoholic, however I would agree if he was drinking this much for years it is a habit that needs to be broken. However, based on the alcohol he is now consuming the question is why?
I just thumbed through the latest BOCES* course brochure and saw 2 distinct handling money and financial courses.See, Harley, the difference between a thinking, drinking man, and just a drinking man!
I don't think these folks can be "fixed", but I wonder about those kids. We aren't doing much in the schools to teach financial topics, or nutrition, or a whole bunch of other things that they could benefit from knowing.
Ambition and goal setting can't really be taught, unfortunately.
We can get high gravity beers (over 10%) now in SC. Talk about a 2 beer high! Whew! The Flying Dog ones are good, but dangerous.
ERD
Seems like your number 3 should be 'Weather'. While Heat & Humidity is a problem now, when the snow begins to fall up north, and I am sipping Margaritas on the deck, it seems like a real good trade off.
1) Local liquor laws (it is still illegal to home brew beer in some states). Pres Carter eliminated the Federal ban, but states can be more restrictive.
I don't get what these regulations are trying to protect against. Are parents not competent to determine whether they allow their children to enter the store with them?
Wait until your children are in school. You'll find out that there are many areas where the state feels that parents are incompetent- at least when compared to the state.
So, to summarize the recent posts, a savvy LBYM ER wannabe should
1) When in tough times (see this thread title), buy your booze not by the least dollar-per-quart, but rather to maximize the oz. of ethanol per dollar (anyone who knows a source for moonshine, please PM me).
2) Heck, even when not in tough times, it is still smart to follow rule 1 above.
3) If having offsprings, one should always look for occasions to indoctrinate Junior with the LBYM way of life, including booze purchase time. Even make that a quality family time. Turn it into an entertainment outing too, by observing other patrons. Who needs to go to the theaters for recreation?
4) Bring the Missus along and let her pay. The ID check would make her feel good, boost her self-esteem for zero cost. She would forget about the amount that she had to pay, and would not nag you. Everybody wins.
Did I miss anything?