Obviously this is not about FIRE.
DH and I are fortunate that we have a nice life together. Now that we are retired, DH does some volunteer work with different groups. We sometimes get invitations for social events that we really don't want to attend. I do not really like to dissimulate (!) but it is almost impossible to tell someone: we really just don't want to go.
Even being honest and saying something like "we just don't go out much" feels awkward.
I normally feel that 100% honesty is usually best no matter how difficult.
But we have no interest in hurting people's feelings!
Has anyone felt this way? How do you handle this?
DH and I are fortunate that we have a nice life together. Now that we are retired, DH does some volunteer work with different groups. We sometimes get invitations for social events that we really don't want to attend. I do not really like to dissimulate (!) but it is almost impossible to tell someone: we really just don't want to go.
Even being honest and saying something like "we just don't go out much" feels awkward.
I normally feel that 100% honesty is usually best no matter how difficult.
But we have no interest in hurting people's feelings!
Has anyone felt this way? How do you handle this?