easysurfer
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We don't have kids either. We've gotten close to all our neighbors and have good friends from childhood, not that they would be responsible for us. We're letting our nieces and nephews know they are our beneficiaries, so they might care for us if one of us is alone. I fear that state guardian issue presented in one of the threads. That said, there are many elderly with children who do not keep in contact with relatives or parents. I guess everyone is alone to some extent. Blood relatives are not guaranteed to care about family members in need.
I almost died when I was in high school and strangely my parents and family were the furthest thing from my mind. Like you're a part of a much bigger family or universe. Sorry, I'm getting spiritual here, even though I'm agnostic.
+1 about the blood relatives not guaranteed to care about family members in need. I think seeing how they reacted with previous members who were in need or died is a good indicator on how they'd act when your turn for help.
Don't want to steer this thread off course, but sounds like you had a NDE. Interested about the bigger family or universe part. I don't mind you sharing if you wish to. If not, totally understood too.