kaudrey
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
I agree - everyone has different levels and ways of LBYM - so you are right that people shouldn't get jumped on for spending money on things they enjoy.
I consider myself pretty frugal (I save 30% of my salary), but I spend on things that are important to me - which mostly means travel and entertainment costs (my friends and I go out a lot). I bargain shop for clothes, buy used cars, and brown bag my lunch - but call me up for happy hour and I have no problem with it. I have learned over the years that balance is the key and sometimes my first reaction can't be "it costs how much?"
I consider myself pretty frugal (I save 30% of my salary), but I spend on things that are important to me - which mostly means travel and entertainment costs (my friends and I go out a lot). I bargain shop for clothes, buy used cars, and brown bag my lunch - but call me up for happy hour and I have no problem with it. I have learned over the years that balance is the key and sometimes my first reaction can't be "it costs how much?"