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Gone but not forgotten
Also if I offended anybody I'm sorry .It was just my thoughts on the subject .Whatever works is good !
Personally I think we are on to something here. If more "mature" couples would try it, they might find that life is simpler.
The article touched on the other non-financial concern that I have heard in a round about way... the loss of identity (perhaps ego) from work. People appears to state it in indirect ways (use different words).
No kidding. I've never understood one's occupation being their identity. I always felt that I was bringing my identity to an occupation-- finally, I found an occupation that could accomodate my opinion of my abilities & skills.I really don't understand this. How is being a retired (whatever you did) less of an ego boost than being an active (whatever you did)? I think it gives you more leeway to spin a good story about things that happened during your years working in that occupation.
The article says, "With the absence of affirmation professionals get from their careers and with no boss or business demanding their expertise anymore, retirees are often left searching for self-worth. " This implies a HUGE lack of inner confidence. It is beyond me how anybody could get anywhere in life, with that kind of attitude. It seems to me that you have to believe in yourself, before others will believe in you.
Maybe it's not the cohabitation. That cultural icon of respectability, Gene Simmons, has been happily unmarried to Shannon Tweed for two kids and over two decades. Those funny looks might be coming from people wondering if you're going to breathe fire too...I'm happy to see more couples like this come out of the woodwork, maybe someday I won't get funny looks anymore when I describe our relationship...
DW and I both have our alone time and space. She watches TV and I play on the computer. And we have our time together.I'm about to introduce this concept here. DW, bless her little blonde head, thinks having me at home means I have nothing better to do. Not that I don't love talking to her, but the constant updating on everything all day long tends to wear off the novelty of togetherness.
Maybe it's not the cohabitation. That cultural icon of respectability, Gene Simmons, has been happily unmarried to Shannon Tweed for two kids and over two decades. Those funny looks might be coming from people wondering if you're going to breathe fire too...
.I'd happily be breathing FI/RE, but I suspect your firebreathing reference zoomed over my head.