Koolau
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I've found that loaning money to just about anyone is like feeding a ferrel animal. They always come back for more - even the ones who repay. Got a friend who ostensibly will w*rk off a recent loan, but I don't know how since he needs to w*rk just to survive right now. I do feel sorry for the predicament he has gotten himself into. He's a nice guy in many ways and he does w*rk hard and does excellent w*rk. But, he can't seem to swallow his pride and take advice. I (and other friends) have advised him of ways to save money, but he seems to think he "deserves" his little luxuries (tea at Starbucks - give me a break!), nice car, nice apartment, lunch out most days, etc. etc. I see some resentment against those who have more than he does. One friend who gave him advice happened to send his son to a nice law school. For some reason, my friend picked up on that and doesn't think he needs to take advice from anyone who can send his son to law school. Say what??
Guess I'm a soft touch - especially for someone who w*rks hard and is really trying. Still, I don't see this ending well - at least not anytime soon. The last time he asked, I sent him to an agency (his church) for assistance. Don't know if he went because they require him to listen to financial advice - which I know he does not what to hear.
Guess I'm a soft touch - especially for someone who w*rks hard and is really trying. Still, I don't see this ending well - at least not anytime soon. The last time he asked, I sent him to an agency (his church) for assistance. Don't know if he went because they require him to listen to financial advice - which I know he does not what to hear.