jollystomper
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My mom aged it placed. It worked out well, mainly because my 6 siblings and I are close, we all were focused on doing the best for mom (she raised us right ), sharing this among us did not put too much of a load beyond what anyone was willing to do, and among my siblings, nieces and nephews there were enough lawyers and doctors with appropriate knowledge to look out for all of the issues.
One of my sisters name was on the house title. She lived in the house, handled maintenance and repair issues but major ones we helped out on. We hired a home aid/nurse for the chores and to assist mom in getting up and around. We did it above board. The cost was split between mom (who insisted on paying for it) and me and my 6 siblings.
We had no liability issues, we carefully vetted the home aid/nurse, who did so well she became like another member of the family. After mom died we gave her some money from mom's estate, which shocked her to tears.
One of my sisters name was on the house title. She lived in the house, handled maintenance and repair issues but major ones we helped out on. We hired a home aid/nurse for the chores and to assist mom in getting up and around. We did it above board. The cost was split between mom (who insisted on paying for it) and me and my 6 siblings.
We had no liability issues, we carefully vetted the home aid/nurse, who did so well she became like another member of the family. After mom died we gave her some money from mom's estate, which shocked her to tears.