I’m pleased that the conversation has turned from simply financial to the rest of the question. I loved
my work, but I realized it was more stressful than it used to be and I didn’t like those super-busy days.
I retired at the end of June, at 65. I know, not exactly ER! I left my stressful job and moved to Vermont at 63, taking another job 3 days/week. I had a long commute (on a secondary road through beautiful villages and farmland) and after a big winter storm I realized I didn’t want to do it any more. I actually don’t mind driving in the snow, but the morning and evening commutes that day were a combined 3 hours. I knew I was safe financially (and I have a consulting gig that I both love and hate), so I cut my hours further and set the date.
In the last 5 weeks, I have been sleeping better than ever. I spend my days in the garden, with the chickens, exploring volunteer work, and moving old 401(k) and 403(b) plans to my IRA. So far, it’s great!
I still get anxious - I have to begin taking some money out of savings and stocks, and this week’s market fluctuations made me nervous. But I know that I’m in this for the long haul, and I have other options if my Vanguard index funds drop. I think the “decumulation” phase will just take some getting used to.