Curious to hear from others who may have struggled with this. Quick background: my mom is a *very* healthy 79 yrs old. Lives out on a large property in the country, far away from medical and from family. Very active and rides horses every day. They are a huge part of her life. Her husband is 91 and starting to fail. I’m thinking forward to the day when he’s not around and trying to figure out what makes the most sense. She recognizes that their current property is too much upkeep, but living remotely in a place where she can have horses is a huge part of her happiness.
She’s agreed to consider relocating near me when he passes away, but is adamant that she wants a property in the country where she can have horses. And right now, she can manage it. But her mother developed dementia and had to go into a home at 82 and I can definitely see that her memory isn’t 100%.
So at 80 something, what do you do? Finances are ok, but not great. I’m wondering if it might make more sense to find a rental but not sure she would go for it. Is it insane for her to think about buying a new property with this kind of upkeep/profile at 80? She’s so healthy and active that it’s hard to imagine anything different, but a lot can change in a few years...
She’s agreed to consider relocating near me when he passes away, but is adamant that she wants a property in the country where she can have horses. And right now, she can manage it. But her mother developed dementia and had to go into a home at 82 and I can definitely see that her memory isn’t 100%.
So at 80 something, what do you do? Finances are ok, but not great. I’m wondering if it might make more sense to find a rental but not sure she would go for it. Is it insane for her to think about buying a new property with this kind of upkeep/profile at 80? She’s so healthy and active that it’s hard to imagine anything different, but a lot can change in a few years...