Retire where YOU want to live. Not to a place you feel you need to use as a bribe for the kids to want to visit you. Will they really be visiting YOU or will they be visiting the area with YOU in the way to tolerate?
Soon they will grow tired of it and they will want to use their limited vacation and time off to go to other places.
Another consideration is even if they do visit you a lot because you live in a vacation area and or have a pool, etc. it will start to become a lot of work as they take advantage of it and YOU! There could be more babysitting and cooking/cleaning required than you signed up for!
Sometimes too much of a good thing. Be careful what you wish for.
This all said, being within a reasonable driving distance to your family is a good thing. You don't want to have to depend on flying for either one of you with the way the world is now. Never mind the expense.
Soon they will grow tired of it and they will want to use their limited vacation and time off to go to other places.
Another consideration is even if they do visit you a lot because you live in a vacation area and or have a pool, etc. it will start to become a lot of work as they take advantage of it and YOU! There could be more babysitting and cooking/cleaning required than you signed up for!
Sometimes too much of a good thing. Be careful what you wish for.
This all said, being within a reasonable driving distance to your family is a good thing. You don't want to have to depend on flying for either one of you with the way the world is now. Never mind the expense.
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