Well, remember, Al, you are taking a poll of folks that are either FIRE'd, or on their way toward being FIRE'd - I'd venture to guess that most of us are pretty happy with our situation (at least financially, and probably generally pretty happy about life in general - I know I am).
I've been interested in happiness for a while, and my research suggests that happiness isn't as dependent on one's situation as much as you'd think. That is, lottery winners aren't happier than paraplegics. IOW, it depends more on your general capacity for happiness rather than situation. I touched on this in
one of my (free) books.
... your worry level is tied not to your circumstances, but to changes in your circumstances.
For example, your worry level is chugging along at the level that’s normal for you, say a 5 on a scale from 1 to 10. You find that your wife has a brain tumor and it shoots up to 10/10. But after a while, even though your wife still has the tumor, it settles down to a 5/10 again. In other words, you adapt to your new circumstances—your new normal. Then they operate successfully, and your worry level goes down to 1/10 (Yay!). But after a while, it will drift back up to 5/10.
Patrick McManus, author of such highbrow books as The Night the Bear Ate Goombaw, put it this way: You always keep your worry box full. If something really bad happens, you empty out the small things, and put that big thing in it. If that big thing gets resolved, you dump it out, and fill up the box again with smaller worries.
You generally have a set worry level (or a set happiness level), and when things happen, that level will change for a while, but generally return to
its regular set point. This is a valuable life lesson; it’s good to know that when something bad happens, you will probably regain your former contentedness level, even if things don’t improve.
The only problem I have with this idea is that, if true, there’s no point in trying to better your situation. You may as well just get a bottle of vodka and hang out in the gutter, because your level of happiness/worry is going to be the same no matter what you do. Someday I will have to test that out.
Also, I did a poll here asking about average happiness level. IIRC, the average level reported was 6/10.