After 35 years of marriage I'm sad to admit my wife and I are having marital problems.One issue has become money.I do the planning and after 8 yrs of retirement I think I'm doing at least an adequate job as our portfolio manager.At this point I don't want to be the one who determines how much a month we can safely spend and not wind up as dumpster divers if we are lucky or unlucky enough to live long lives. This really is the only reason I'm considering a planner.This way neither of us determines how much we can safely spend each month. I guess the fees are now 1-2% annually which is pretty outrageous in my mind but if this may help our marriage it might be worth it. Any thoughts out there on my situation and how I can find a good planner If I go that route?