Couldn't have said it better.
Edit: Deleted the rest. This guy sounds exactly like the troll "Forced to Retire", and I'm not playing that game again.
+1 Maybe I'm getting cynical but I thought this sounded like "Forced to Retire" too...
Couldn't have said it better.
Edit: Deleted the rest. This guy sounds exactly like the troll "Forced to Retire", and I'm not playing that game again.
+1 Maybe I'm getting cynical but I thought this sounded like "Forced to Retire" too...
My friends and relatives who really enjoy retirement the most are people who leave the workforce after a long and successful career and do it on the date of their choosing.
They feel proud of their career and life accomplishments, have a nice retirement party at work, get all kinds of compliments about how great they are and feel like they really added value to their employer and profession.
Other friends and relatives who are retired are bitter, bored and frustrated. Their employer kicked them out without any warning or praise. Their ex coworkers ignore social offers and they felt they still had things to offer the workforce, but employers disagreed.
Could you enjoy your retirement if you were pushed out before you were ready, even if you had enough money to retire and were over 60?
Personally, I could enjoy it. How you approach life, your happiness, etc... are largely part of your attitude and how you *choose* to deal with what life gives you.
If you're laid off... you can whine and play the victim... or you can look for the positive.
The ones who are unhappy are choosing to focus on the negative and be unhappy.
Retirement is too good to waste it looking back!
Completely agree. I was propelled into ER by a layoff due to the fact that my company went out of business. My self-worth wasn't entirely tied to the job, but I did derive a fair degree of satisfaction (and a little bit of my identity) from it. There was something strangely unsettling about the fact that the organization that had been such a mainstay of my life for 16 years no longer existed. It had no physical location that I could go back to. Employee records, archives of meetings, business plans, ad campaigns etc have most likely long been shredded and recycled.Never tie your self worth to a job. A company cannot love back. It is good as long as it is but can change quickly.
Completely agree. I was propelled into ER by a layoff due to the fact that my company went out of business. My self-worth wasn't entirely tied to the job, but I did derive a fair degree of satisfaction (and a little bit of my identity) from it. There was something strangely unsettling about the fact that the organization that had been such a mainstay of my life for 16 years no longer existed. It had no physical location that I could go back to. Employee records, archives of meetings, business plans, ad campaigns etc have most likely long been shredded and recycled.
It's all gone.
But I'm still here
Could you enjoy your retirement if you were pushed out before you were ready, even if you had enough money to retire and were over 60?
No way would I give them the satisfaction of seeing me happy. I'd be bitter, angry and miserable until I died. Then they'd be sorry.
+1 Maybe I'm getting cynical but I thought this sounded like "Forced to Retire" too...
My friends and relatives who really enjoy retirement the most are people who leave the workforce after a long and successful career and do it on the date of their choosing.
They feel proud of their career and life accomplishments, have a nice retirement party at work, get all kinds of compliments about how great they are and feel like they really added value to their employer and profession.
Other friends and relatives who are retired are bitter, bored and frustrated. Their employer kicked them out without any warning or praise. Their ex coworkers ignore social offers and they felt they still had things to offer the workforce, but employers disagreed.
Could you enjoy your retirement if you were pushed out before you were ready, even if you had enough money to retire and were over 60?
I think it's That Poster, too. Everybody gets peeved at this poster, but s/he does start the most interesting threads, even if with hypocritical motives.
In my view, it's not quite like true trolls, who make provocative comments in hopes of setting everyone by the ears.
I think it's That Poster, too. Everybody gets peeved at this poster, but s/he does start the most interesting threads, even if with hypocritical motives.
In my view, it's not quite like true trolls, who make provocative comments in hopes of setting everyone by the ears.
I think most people got angry when the person had that long, drawn out thread about being tied to an apartment, unable to get any kind of job anywhere, with a bunch of excuses why he couldn't things a lot of people suggested, then it all turned out to be a sham. I wouldn't have been surprised if he'd have turned this thread into the same thing, given a chance.