I lost my favorite grandmother when I was in that age range. My parents though it was best to shelter me and did not let me go to the funeral. Same thing when my grandfather died. I don't think that they did me any favors - I should have been exposed to death and dying. I know they did it because I was a "sensitive" child and cried at the drop of a hat, but that hasn't changed now that I'm 63 - still cry easily which I think is perfectly OK.