Lisa99
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Sorry, but IMHO you have much deeper problems as related to money and how it is applied to your joint lifestyle.
I have comments, but I'll withold them (based upon "input" of your postings).
Let's just say, that I wish you well...
I agree that we do have some money issues to work through, but we've been married 22 years and this is a recurring theme in our marriage. His purchases aren't big, but are frequent, so it's not like he's buying big boy toys thank goodness.
The great thing is that we can talk about it without anger. I've shared this entire thread with him and he now fully understands where my discomfort lies.
He's also agreed to start helping with the planning so I'm going to show him how to use Firecalc so he can come up with his own number (under close supervision of course!)
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