aja8888
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Yes, it appears cremation is hot.
Wait until the global warming people get a hold of this!
Yes, it appears cremation is hot.
I'm surprised how many people are opting for cremation in this thread. Our family and friends are still all getting buried.
Some folks do cremation and then have the ashes buried.
We just buried my FIL, and he and his wife are in the same plot as both are cremated.
I don't know if there is an official limit, but I think 4 folks could fit in 1 plot when all cremated.
Well, we will run out of real estate eventually, as the amount of that is fixed, and the population is increasing faster and faster every year.I'm surprised how many people are opting for cremation in this thread. Our family and friends are still all getting buried.
I think any "limit" depends on the particular cemetery. The pioneer cemetery where my wife is buried and where I have a plot next to hers does allow urns with cremains to be placed in plots. But that particular cemetery says "only two urns" per plot. Some cemeteries may not specify any limit for cremains in urns, so yes, four could easily fit.
I think any "limit" depends on the particular cemetery. The pioneer cemetery where my wife is buried and where I have a plot next to hers does allow urns with cremains to be placed in plots. But that particular cemetery says "only two urns" per plot. Some cemeteries may not specify any limit for cremains in urns, so yes, four could easily fit.
You may need a Plan B. I looked into it in DH's last months and the place I checked didn't accept emaciated bodies. Poor DH certainly was at that point- 6'2" and 117 lbs.- so that was not an option.
You may need a Plan B. I looked into it in DH's last months and the place I checked didn't accept emaciated bodies. Poor DH certainly was at that point- 6'2" and 117 lbs.- so that was not an option.
The main issue I think is not accidentally digging up a previously interred urn of ashes when burying urns #2 through #N. (I think they use a digging machine of some kind and not shovels, so hitting an urn with a backhoe or posthole digger would not be good PR.)
The cemetery I'm familiar with has a system that urns are always buried in a specific location in the plot. I think they allow (at least) one urn and one casket per plot.
And that tells me that it is only about the money. You could put a LOT of cremains in a single cemetery plot (if they allowed compostable urns). The cost of "placing" cremains in some cemeteries is nothing but a rip off, IMHO.
Wow, that would have ruled out both my parents; almost certainly my thin husband, and probably me! Maybe it is a way of excluding people who died of contagious diseases?
And that tells me that it is only about the money. You could put a LOT of cremains in a single cemetery plot (if they allowed compostable urns). The cost of "placing" cremains in some cemeteries is nothing but a rip off, IMHO.
If my husband goes first, I will keep his ashes for a little while and then scatter half of his ashes at Pebble Beach golf course and half at our country club course. Hopefully it is legal. .
I don't think I would say anything ahead of time to the golf course folks about it. You may want to go play a round of golf at the needed time, and quietly/privately scatter the ashes.
Wow, that would have ruled out both my parents; almost certainly my thin husband, and probably me! Maybe it is a way of excluding people who died of contagious diseases? When we registered as body donors in Maryland, there was nothing about "condition of the body." I will check on the rules in Florida.
When I had PT for my shoulder, I chatted with the various young therapists, some of whom were still in college for their certification. They do a lot of anatomy studies on cadavers, and 8 or more students have to share a single one, so donations are more than welcome. I asked if there were any exclusions. They were like, no way. The best teaching tools are imperfect bodies, like real patients have - arthritis, artificial joints, etc.
When I had PT for my shoulder, I chatted with the various young therapists, some of whom were still in college for their certification. They do a lot of anatomy studies on cadavers, and 8 or more students have to share a single one, so donations are more than welcome. I asked if there were any exclusions. They were like, no way. The best teaching tools are imperfect bodies, like real patients have - arthritis, artificial joints, etc.
I don't think I would say anything ahead of time to the golf course folks about it. You may want to go play a round of golf at the needed time, and quietly/privately scatter the ashes.
In the 5 years since DH died, I've left bits of his ashes in the lake behind our house, in the Panama Canal, in the Ganges at Varanasi, in Alaska and Hawaii, in Costa Rica, in Bolivia, off of a bridge in Paris, at the top of Arthur's Seat in Edinburgh, under a tree in Kathmandu, and in Iceland. Only in India, where it's a respected practice, and in Hawaii, where it was the site of an ancient burial ground on Lanai, did anyone know. DH knew that was the plan and liked the idea. I'm not done yet.
I'm glad to know that bone ash is good for the flowers!