Dex, I find that limiting my media exposure is a great help. Turn off the "news" and ignore the lunatic alarmists. They will always be there.
There could be physical stuff going on. I was amazed at how much better and upbeat I felt this past winter when I started taking vit D supplements. I must have been horribly deficient.
I had some 5K vitamin D around the house - I will start them today.
Maybe its just that you need a change of pace or a new challenge. Is there a place you have always wanted to go, a hobby you have neglected, or something else out of your normal routine that might appeal? Would something with a goal help?
Once I listed all the countries I've been to - it was in the area of 20-25 and to many of the states, including Hawaii but not Alaska. So travel for me doesn't hold the allure any more. I do want to try a cruse - maybe to Alaska.
I think you are correct about hobbies and volunteering - I need to get involved with communities for the times I'm not Rving. In a way I know this is my challenge in life - people.
We all created our coping techniques when young. And they can work. But, any strength overused or taken to an extreme, it can become a weakness. To survive my early years, I worked (had a job at 12-13) and then from 15 on (including college) it was 30 hrs during school and full time during the summers. During that time I had friends but I was probably closer to them then them to me. In other words few close relationships. I exchanged a few e-mails with a girlfriend from when I was 20-25 and told her about my ER. She said I always was a 'free bird'. I was shocked; I never thought of myself that way. When I asked her what she meant; it was that I went my own way and did what I wanted. When guys I knew when I was a teenager heard what I was doing the response was - that sound like him.
My early behavior worked to get me our of poorish family and into a white collar job while most of those I grew up with didn't . I'm not sure exactly how I would characterize the coping technique I'm describing. Because, I can not say I made positive choices - meaning I went to college because I know I didn't want to do manual labor. I majored in finance because I couldn't spell and was not good at liberal arts. When I made a job change at work was because I was bored. So I had a guardian angel because I didn't really know what I was doing. Although, I could make it look coherent.
Looking at it I guess my coping mechanism was the distraction of school and work, and few close relationships with people (and I might add hiding behind logical thinking, if you couldn't tell). This is not a good combination for ER. But, I do have to say that this cloud I'm under now is the first in 4 years. In my mind, I know this will pass and will hopefully more me along in my life's challenge. But, it sucks all the same.
I think I knew this phase would come. That is why I made that other post about the phases of ER.