steady saver
Recycles dryer sheets
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I felt that same angst - 9 1/2 months ago. In a nutshell, I had the opportunity to take a buyout a couple of days before my 57th birthday and I am grateful that I was selected as I had not been happy in my work for a number of years. I generally felt frustrated and financial insecurity (and emotional guilt) prevented me from walking away. Anyway, I did so - and am truly much happier 9 1/2 months later.
My angst lasted about three months. I had not constructed a plan for my days. I was so worried about filling my entire day that retirement was just overwhelming.
Simply, I started with a daily walk, then I found a very enjoyable "side hustle," which provided flexibility on my terms. I joined a couple of groups in the 55 and over community that I live in, enjoyed the pool a lot this summer, scheduled four trips with my wife for next year and started filling in the gaps in order to enjoy my days.
Now, I am no longer overwhelmed, have a healthy disposition and just take things in stride. This past Friday I even enjoyed a spa day - hair trim and shampoo, then a massage.
Starting to really live the life I had always planned.
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Starting each day with a walk...yes. Clears the mind, gets you moving. Perfect.
I love your last line..."Starting to really live the life I had always planned..."
Thank you for thoughts.