I just highlighted this part of your post, but pretty much your entire comments are my worry about leaving AT&T. We used to have spotty AT&T coverage where we lived in California until about 4 years ago when they added a cell tower in a light industrial area about a mile away. 4-5 bars throughout our house. It was wonderful.YMMV, but I'd highly recommend testing the bajeebus out of your coverage area. Don't make the same mistake I did and trust the online coverage maps or think "hey, it's 2019..OF COURSE every major network is decent (they're not)". The online coverage maps are also questionable - they're total BS (IMHO) or "creative marketing" at best..
Flash forward to a year ago when we moved to Texas and the rental house in the northern part of Leander. Oh my word! Brutal cell reception. Calls would drop out, if you were fortunate to get through. Texts with images could take a minute or more to complete. When we moved to the house we now own back in June, cell reception was a little better, but still not great (closer to the middle of Leander, but still quite north). Coverage maps for everyone look spotty. Hopefully, as the area builds up, more towers will arrive.
That said, our (adult) kid has Google Fi, which piggybacks off the two network systems (AT&T/T-Mobile, Verizon/Sprint). Never had a phone call drop out at the rental or at are current house. Since we use next to no data and Google Fi charges only on data used, we may go that route, although we'll need to upgrade our phones (maybe get the Moto G7).