Dawg52
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It is rare that DW and I have not gotten a thank you response if we have given a gift. We feel that saying "thank you" for a gift is basic courtesy and manners, and has nothing to do with "expecting something in return". It does not have to be a long handwritten letter wrapped in silk and scented with perfume - a text message is perfectly fine.
Regardless of what generation one is part of, if one was not taught to express "thanks" when a gift is received, then one was not raised right.
Over the years I always sent cards and money to my nephew's & niece on their b'day when they were growing up. On my b'day their mother would send a card with the kiddies signature on the card. Sometimes a gift certificate included. After the kids were on their own, no cards or call whatsoever. They probably don't have a clue as to the date of my b'day. Along the way I stopped sending anything either. Sometimes I do see them on Christmas and we exchange gifts then. Oh well....not unusual so it seems.