How did you view your job/career by the time you FIREd?

In the end I was proud of my 30 year career. I was also elated that I was FI and could make the choice to leave when I did. The last year was a difficult RIF year. It was also a good break point in my projects to leave. Looking back I realized that I only had 3 bad years out of 30. I considered that pretty successful. I left without burning bridges and I have a good relationship with my former work colleagues. Five years into ER and I am content with my decision to leave. No regrets.
 
Wow, I feel like an outlier. When I turned 49, it was apparent to me I was a half step slower mentally, and my career had been built on that. I probably stayed a couple years beyond what I should have, but the money was too good. In retrospect I should have gone at 50.
 
As I wound down my career in dentistry, I was faced with a decision: Make big investments to keep my practice looking modern (although none of that money would have actually improved treatment outcomes, just stuff people had become accustomed to seeing, and to not have them makes you look like a fossil), with poor ROI, or recognize that it was probably time to make plans to get out.
I chose to get out. In addition to voluntary things I was not anxious to do, there were a lot of mandatory things coming down the pike that would cost money, be clunky to facilitate, and basically just a huge PITA, which I was not eager to participate in.

So I got lucky, sold the practice, and got out. But I didn't hate what I was doing, but the handwriting on the wall told me I probably soon would.
 
My job as a private practice lawyer with a big law firm involved very long hours and was, at times, very stressful, but, on the whole, it was good - providing a variety of challenges and high income. I wasn't unhappy with it.

For me, FIREing in 2013 at age 47 wasn't about walking away because I disliked my job, it was about realizing that there were a lot of things I want to do with my life and that the kind of hours I had to put in made it impossible to do a lot of them. There was also the realization that, at some point, I would get too old to do some of them.

Three years in, I've completed an MFA, written and self-published a novel, run a very slow marathon and recently started a PhD and a second novel, most of which I would not have been able to do if I had kept working. I've also learned a few things about myself.
 
I enjoyed the field I worked in (R&D), but hated my job for the last several years I worked at mega corp. I had already spent several years there and stayed with the stress to be able to collect a retirement pension and healthcare benefits.

The work environment had deteriorated for quite some time and the company wasn't doing well. When mega corp made an early retirement offer to all employees over a certain age and length of service, I ran to be the first volunteer in line.
 
I was in top management until I was a threat to the top guy (I had more pull with the directors). He lied to the board and demoted me ("I will make your life hell until you are gone in less than 3 months"). I wasn't quite able to retire early, and had to hold on for about 2 years. That was a miserable time. I loved my job until the last 3 years, then hated it.
 
I believe my answer for the OP is the last sentence below

Background:

My working life was kind of a mess. Seems like every employer choice turned out bad in some respect. After the military in 1968, I went to college under the GI Bill and got an engineering degree and later an MBA, both from Ivy League colleges.

I took a job at Anaconda Metals in Connecticut out of college in 1973 as an Industrial Engineer when the Company was in decline and needed cost controls. By 1980, I worked my way up to Plant Manger of one division’s largest manufacturing plants and was the youngest ever at that management level in the Company. It was all good until the price of copper fell into the toilet and we were almost bankrupt. With a stroke of luck, ARCO bought the Company during the second oil embargo in 1977 or so. All seemed good and they poured money into the failing metals company. That effort turned out to be a big mistake in a few short years.

Through a stroke of luck, I landed a corporate job at ARCO in Los Angeles and moved there from Connecticut in 1981. We had two toddlers and faced an 18% mortgage in LA. Fortunately, ARCO helped tremendously with the move and mortgage assistance.

In 1985, I was a corporate auditor and worked in corporate M & A. I was part of a team assigned the sale of the Anaconda plants (how fitting!) and proceeded to get them sold or closed. At that time, the price of oil was approaching $8 barrel and ARCO was shedding assets and employees. I knew my time was limited as my boss retired (he was my mentor). In mid-1985, I was one of 6,600 employees taking the “package” so to say and I was technically unemployed with a year’s severance and 18 calculated years of banked retirement benefits.

The job market was in the tank in the mid 1980’s and I ended up going into consulting. Within a few years, I was running the West Coast office of a boutique M&A consulting firm (privately held) and life was good! (For a while).

In 1989, the CEO of the consulting firm woke up one day in Houston and decided to fire his four regional VP’s, of which I was one. At the same time, DW, decided life was better elsewhere and filed for divorce. So, I am out of work and facing a very expensive California divorce with two California homes, two teen aged daughters and lots of bills.

Taking all of this in stride (and growing up very poor), I figured it was better than my life before hot meals and indoor plumbing. I managed a job in another consulting firm in Houston, got through the divorce with a 10 year old car and $40 K to my name and started over in 1992. My debt load was enormous as there was $3,000/month in child support and $1,500/month in alimony payments.

So I moved to Houston for the job, rented an apartment and rented furniture. A few years later, I remarried and bought a house with a fully assumable, no qualifying loan and quit the job to go out on my own. In 1998, I incorporated (Sub S) and worked my butt off for the next 15 years and got back on my feet. In the process, I put both daughters through college with no debt on their part and paid for two homes in The Woodlands, TX. Somehow, and I am not sure of the process, we put together a nice nest egg to go along with the paid for homes.

So, when you look back at all of this, career wise, I’m not sure I even had one that I can describe.
 
Background:



My working life was kind of a mess. Seems like every employer choice turned out bad in some respect. After the military in 1968, I went to college under the GI Bill and got an engineering degree and later an MBA, both from Ivy League colleges.



I took a job at Anaconda Metals in Connecticut out of college in 1973 as an Industrial Engineer when the Company was in decline and needed cost controls. By 1980, I worked my way up to Plant Manger of one division’s largest manufacturing plants and was the youngest ever at that management level in the Company. It was all good until the price of copper fell into the toilet and we were almost bankrupt. With a stroke of luck, ARCO bought the Company during the second oil embargo in 1977 or so. All seemed good and they poured money into the failing metals company. That effort turned out to be a big mistake in a few short years.



Through a stroke of luck, I landed a corporate job at ARCO in Los Angeles and moved there from Connecticut in 1981. We had two toddlers and faced an 18% mortgage in LA. Fortunately, ARCO helped tremendously with the move and mortgage assistance.



In 1985, I was a corporate auditor and worked in corporate M & A. I was part of a team assigned the sale of the Anaconda plants (how fitting!) and proceeded to get them sold or closed. At that time, the price of oil was approaching $8 barrel and ARCO was shedding assets and employees. I knew my time was limited as my boss retired (he was my mentor). In mid-1985, I was one of 6,600 employees taking the “package” so to say and I was technically unemployed with a year’s severance and 18 calculated years of banked retirement benefits.



The job market was in the tank in the mid 1980’s and I ended up going into consulting. Within a few years, I was running the West Coast office of a boutique M&A consulting firm (privately held) and life was good! (For a while).



In 1989, the CEO of the consulting firm woke up one day in Houston and decided to fire his four regional VP’s, of which I was one. At the same time, DW, decided life was better elsewhere and filed for divorce. So, I am out of work and facing a very expensive California divorce with two California homes, two teen aged daughters and lots of bills.



Taking all of this in stride (and growing up very poor), I figured it was better than my life before hot meals and indoor plumbing. I managed a job in another consulting firm in Houston, got through the divorce with a 10 year old car and $40 K to my name and started over in 1992. My debt load was enormous as there was $3,000/month in child support and $1,500/month in alimony payments.



So I moved to Houston for the job, rented an apartment and rented furniture. A few years later, I remarried and bought a house with a fully assumable, no qualifying loan and quit the job to go out on my own. In 1998, I incorporated (Sub S) and worked my butt off for the next 15 years and got back on my feet. In the process, I put both daughters through college with no debt on their part and paid for two homes in The Woodlands, TX. Somehow, and I am not sure of the process, we put together a nice nest egg to go along with the paid for homes.



So, when you look back at all of this, career wise, I’m not sure I even had one that I can describe.


Wow. Not exactly a straight line to FIRE. Really interesting story. Seems a miracle you could RE given those circumstances. Nice job!

Makes me feel boring to myself in comparison. Although frankly boring is okay by me. Don't think I could've handled some of those experiences.

Muir
 
I am just biding time for now. Still working, although part-time, and so far that has been a very nice way to put up with going into the workplace for my 3 days/week. I don't dislike my work as engineer, I just like not working a lot more. So I am not really a BS bucket is full anymore, the part-time has helped that. Mainly working to keep the insurance, plus the paycheck avoids any real withdrawals from the savings.
 
Loved what I did but the BS bucket was overflowing. The younger people who were in upper management had no clue what we did (a specialized field) and didn't take the time to find out.

Was really ready. Occasionally I hear from recruiters with consulting opportunities but I am way to busy in retirement. :dance:
 
I read through many of the posts here and am impressed with the variety. Lots of smart, hardworking types here.

Me? I went through college and got an MSEE at Berkeley. Got an R&D job at mega corp in Silicon Valley. Although I was a good employee, it always felt like there were too many smarter people about. I never felt secure although my ranking was always pretty high. I guess I just did not really enjoy the competition.

After many years in the valley, we moved to a city up north with the same company. I'd had several varied jobs, mostly in R&D. The move positioned me to have a nice place to retire in ... some day. Then the tech craze bull phase came and I was deemed a great employee and got some stock options even. Then mega corps took a few divisions, bundled them up, and spun that company off. So here I was in a smaller, less diversified company but still doing well.

Then the tech crash occurred. Layoffs followed. Each layoff ended with a stirring speech by a top manager about how we were going forward and now better off. In 2003 there was a layoff (over 2000) and guess who's group got the boot. It was a bit of a shock as I thought R&D would be OK and my project was going full steam. But they had a group in Belgium that could do my job and that foreign government didn't look on layoffs like ours does.

Anyway, I got a good package and I was eligible for early retirement benefits. I got training to look for another job. But after doing the math, lots of spreadsheet work, I concluded that we were OK without a paycheck coming in.

At this point our portfolio is about 6% above the inflation adjusted portfolio in 2003. We're planning more trips and just having fun. DS got through college and is self supporting.

Life is good. Competition for jobs and assignments and pay? I'll leave that to others and enjoy the pasture.
 
I enjoyed my career for the most part. I am an achievement-driven person so getting to the C-suite was motivating as were some big projects I initiated that drove great results for my employer. However, I always enjoyed time with DH and friends doing other things I like MUCH more than w*rk. I had always planned to RE, and I resigned the day after I received a large bonus earned over multiple years. Might have given a bit longer notice period had I liked working for my relatively new boss and not had such a bad commute, but the combination of a not so great boss (micromanager who knew better) and a horrible commute (3-4 hours/day) made it an easy decision to give the 30-day minimum notice required by my employment contract. I've only been ER for 3 weeks but I absolutely LOVE it! Would have done it earlier but didn't want to leave a bonus equivalent to more than a year's base on the table.
 
As I wound down my career in dentistry, I was faced with a decision: Make big investments to keep my practice looking modern (although none of that money would have actually improved treatment outcomes, just stuff people had become accustomed to seeing, and to not have them makes you look like a fossil), with poor ROI, or recognize that it was probably time to make plans to get out.

Too cheap to install and maintain a saltwater aquarium, huh?:D
 
EastWestGirl posted this "The workload was horrendous for most of my career. I was physically exhausted all the time. Having worked my last day July 31st, I still feel as if I'm recovering. I am trying to find out who I am and develop healthy routines for myself. I don't think I've yet adjusted to not working."

I totally get where you are coming from. Your story sounds very much like mine. My last day will be December 31, 2016. I am not sure about how to develop a healthy routine for myself and how to go about enriching myself and developing myself into a more evolved human being.

I have liked my jobs, but they have been very demanding spiritually, physically, and mentally. This last job I have had, I really enjoyed (for the past 6 years). It was in utilization management. I was able to work at home, which worked well for my family. Unfortunately, the company merged with another 6 months ago and leadership changed. The company has now become toxic and is not a good fit for me.

I am happy to have found this forum. I hope to meet this new transition with grace and not too much anxiety.

Thanks evryone for sharing. It is helpful for me.
 
Like EastWestGirl. i am a retired physician. My career path had fewer bumps, only one practice change, but the burnout occurred nonetheless.
Medicine is changing in ways that are being driven by people who are neither doctors nor patients.
If I had to keep working, I could have.
My "mistake" was investigating how much I needed and how much I had accumulated. Knowing you have enough made the BS harder to put up with. Or the putting up with harder to justify.
Add in a bunch of other factors (aging parents,a friend with early onset dementia, watching lots of people my own age be diagnosed with terminal illnesses, etc.) and the decision was easy.

I have had no problem finding things to do. I love the freedom. From medical school through practice so many people have leashes and hooks in you that the liberation from all that has been exhilarating!


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Interesting thread. I encounter people periodically that indicate they love their job and can't wait to get up every morning. That's great for them - hope it lasts a good long time.

I didn't hate my job by any means. I worked in the electronics industry for two different companies (three if you count being acquired by a 3rd company) for 28 years total. That was plenty long for me. The daily grind, the bureaucratic BS, being pulled in different directions, early morning and late evening conference calls around the world all took their toll - it was time to leave and I'm pleased megacorp offered a "package" to leave. The package itself was not enough to retire but it certainly provided a soft-landing.

Five years down the FIRE road and I'm happy I did it.
 
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I am happy to have found this forum. I hope to meet this new transition with grace and not too much anxiety.

Thanks evryone for sharing. It is helpful for me.
Welcome to the forum Pedidiva. You will loose some work anxiety (hopefully a lot) and maybe pick up some slight "what next?" anxiety. My guess it will basically go way down.

It's a challenge for each of us to find what really interests us instead of having our time set by work/competitive forces. There are several threads on this site that discuss people's choices after retiring.
 
I very much enjoyed my job in the public health sector, however, health care really is changing (and not for the better in my opinion). I stayed longer for retiree health insurance coverage. This last year was a really tough one, though!
 
Late to the party - again. Related in other threads: I w*rked for one Megacorp for 36 years. Now retired 11 years.

When I started, the company was still influenced and partly managed by old family. The Corp. atmosphere was very conservative but incredibly benign toward employees. We received great pay and benefits and management was expected to treat us like family - which they did for the most part. As the family influence waned, the corp. slowly morphed into a more typical company but still tried to hold up most of the ideals of the original founders. Wages/benefits slowly got a bit worse and the family atmosphere was slowly replaced by the more typical corp. mentality. Still, not laying off w*rkers and maintaining civility remained.

When I joined the Corp., I realized my particular j*b was not what I wanted. I spent years developing the job I wanted and was able to place myself into it - there was an element of right-place, right-time, but mostly, I made the j*b

I stayed in this particular existence (with several iterations) for the remainder of my c@reer. I rose to senior staff position - never wanting to go into management. One day, at 36 years, I was told I was going to go back and do the j*b I started at the company (QC if you must know:LOL:). I said "No. I'm not. I'm retiring." I had been FI at 51 (vested pension, nice nest egg) but stayed until 58 because I still loved my j*b. When I decided to leave, I told my boss on the Tues. following Labor Day that Friday would be my last day - though I was empl*yed and on vacation until end of the month.

All in all, it was a much better ride than many of the folks I've read above. Still, I am so glad to be free of the daily grind and corp. BS. Looking forward to whatever time is left and hope those still empl*yed find happiness along the path to FIRE.
 
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My job was a necessary evil. I worked for a psychopath boss who eventually killed his division (300+ employees laid off) with his blind ambition. Working for him gave me a lot of stress, too much to bear. One of my sycophant peers didn't help the situation either. Other than that, my job was ideal, with good employees and equally fair co-workers. If it weren't for my boss, I'd work a few more years to save enough for my travel budget. But enough was enough.
 
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