jazz4cash
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Sometimes we have experiences that affect our outlook over the long term. Life and death experiences probably affect us most of all, but there are other things that can form our attitudes.
In my case, the decision to avoid the stock market was influenced by the experience of a very close friend. It was late 2008, when my best friend Jim, retired from AT&T @ 58, with a total of $800,000 as a nest egg. He moved with his wife to my over 55 Park in Florida to snowbird... happy and confident in the future.
By March or April in 2009, we watched as the market changed, to see the upset, near to panic... knowing that there was no job to go back to. This made a lasting impression on us.
The market did recover, and Jim was okay, but those interim months are etched in my memory.
Do you happen to know what your friends AA was at the time? Many didn’t know until it was too late that their equity exposure was uncomfortably high. The folks that lost in the long run were the ones that sold in panic. My takeaway is your friends were OK because they held on until the market came back. He likely also had a good DB pension so that helps tremendously.