Strange offer on a house I'm selling

I glossed over all the stuff I found, but I've been hearing about Nehamiah for a loooong time. Probably a bit unfair to hang much of the bubble on them, but like anything else probably has been abused. There is a 'program fee' that I would bet some quasi-charitable groups abused. According to one blog I saw the courts slapped down the action by HUD permanently, so I think DPA (Down Payment Assistance) programs are still going strong. I think the HUD Sec'y may be certafiable.......he's gotten himself into all sorts of scraps. Supposedly these programs are for folks with good credit and adequate ratios, but still highly leveraged and property must appraise over asking price in OP's case.
 
Thanks for all the replies. I heard back from my attorney and she says this is legit. The organization we would be making the dontation to is Downpayment Assistance Made Even Easier!. It looks like we're paying the buyers 3% downpayment and we're covering the closing costs as well, which we're fine with. This preferred program is taking a pretty heft fee but, like I said, we're fine with the amount we'll walk away with. The only thing I didn't factor in was paying commission on on the 230k sales price instead of the 216k we're actually getting. Thank you for pointing that out.

According to our attorney and our real estate agent, everything will be disclosed properly and we aren't doing anything illegal.
 
Dumb question off the top of my head...what happens if you make the donation and then the deal fails to close due to insufficient funds from the buyer? Do you get your donation back? Or does the 'donation' happen during the closing process after the escrow is funded?

We did something similar to this, minus the donations, with my wifes old house. Offer was for 10k over ask with 10k getting put back into the deal as part down payment and part closing costs. The couple that bought the house put a $500 deposit on it with the offer and when I asked that they increase the deposit to $2000 earnest money, they said that $500 was all they had and they had to scrimp to come up with THAT.

They're in foreclosure now, and thats not good news for the bank because that house's value has probably dropped a good 40% since we sold it to them.
 
Glad to hear you have checked this out and seem very comfortable with the process. I was wondering if the 'donation' is tax deductible? Can't think of any reason why it would not be.
 
The only thing I didn't factor in was paying commission on on the 230k sales price instead of the 216k we're actually getting. Thank you for pointing that out.

The tax stamps (paid to the town/city) will also be on the larger sale $$. Most states have this paid by the seller (VT has the BUYER pay them).

Makes you wonder about the many of the recorded sale values ... when loads of the sale proceeds are going everywhere EXCEPT to the seller.
 
Dumb question off the top of my head...what happens if you make the donation and then the deal fails to close due to insufficient funds from the buyer? Do you get your donation back? Or does the 'donation' happen during the closing process after the escrow is funded?

It's my understanding that the funds come from a pool of funds from previous donations and is wired prior to closing. Then, at closing, our donation replaces the funds that came out of the 'pool'.

Glad to hear you have checked this out and seem very comfortable with the process. I was wondering if the 'donation' is tax deductible? Can't think of any reason why it would not be.

I was wondering the same thing but on their website they state that the donation isn't tax deductible. I'll probably look into this a bit more to find out why it isn't.
 
Thats easy. One of the criteria for a donation to be characterized as charitable and deductible is that you do not expect to receive compensation for making the donation.

Since you're getting a return as part of a financial transaction you're participating in, it wont qualify.

Its also not really a "donation" per se. But it does sound better that way.
 
Why would HUD allow these shenanigans when funneled through a sham charity, but wouldn't allow the seller to just directly rebate money to the buyer in a transparent way?

And in this context what does "charity" mean anyway. It seems this "charity" doesn't offer tax advantages, contributes to the delinquency of our society, and only benefits particular individuals.
 
This preferred program is taking a pretty hefty fee

This sounds like a more 'genteel' version of the mortage scams running around Italy; just saw a service on it last night where they sent hidden cameras around with a young couple visting mortgage brokers. Him: undocumented "income" of ~ €1300 monthly; her: temp. contract for €1000 monthly. Broker #1: "no problem; we'll just set up a fake company that will give you a pay stub history and a 'business' phone number in case the bank calls.." for the modest sum of €2000. Brokers #2 & 3 offered, for €2500 in one case and 3% of the loan in the other, to falsify the girl's paystubs to make it look like she had qualifying income.

It's my understanding that the funds come from a pool of funds from previous donations and is wired prior to closing. Then, at closing, our donation replaces the funds that came out of the 'pool'.

Does this not say to you, "pyramid scheme"?


Sounds like a recipe to screw the lending bank -the buyers will have no equity in the house- but it's not clear what your risk is. KM brings up good points about what the inflated sales price might mean to you and your brother. If it doesn't qualify for the CG exemption (you haven't lived in it 2 out of the last 5 years) it will increase your CG taxes. What's your basis established at your father's passing? Do you sense that there is interest in your market or do you think this is the best offer you're likely to get in the timeframe? I'd probably pay for a RE atty. in the home state to look at it, in any case.
 
Sounds like a recipe to screw the lending bank -the buyers will have no equity in the house- but it's not clear what your risk is. KM brings up good points about what the inflated sales price might mean to you and your brother. If it doesn't qualify for the CG exemption (you haven't lived in it 2 out of the last 5 years) it will increase your CG taxes. What's your basis established at your father's passing? Do you sense that there is interest in your market or do you think this is the best offer you're likely to get in the timeframe? I'd probably pay for a RE atty. in the home state to look at it, in any case.

The house isn't in great shape and the other offers we've gotten have been EXTREMELY low compared to this one. Before putting the house on the market we decided that we'd take anything above 215k, which is why we're fine with what we'll end up.

I haven't lived in the house for about 4 years. My brothers, on the other hand, are living there currently and have been since my dad passed away. The appraised value after his passing was 240k. So, I'm not entirely sure of the tax implications of that. We are using an attorney, in fact, the attorney we're using for this is the same person we used to open up his Estate.
 
One of my neighbors got a great offer on their home, surprisingly higher than asking. The only wrinkle was that the new "owners" wanted to move in before closing (technically renting it during that period). Turned out that the people moving in were druggies who just wanted to squat until they got evicted. This was a clever way to avoid rental background checks.
Oooh, good to know about that trick-- thanks!

Why would anyone buy or sell real estate without the services of an attorney? :confused:
Because they cost money and, unless paid more, have no incentive to move the deal along. I haven't used an attorney to close on a house since 1985 (South Carolina), and he screwed it up. Of course since then we've done our real estate buying/selling in Hawaii & California, which didn't require lawyers.
 
One of my neighbors got a great offer on their home, surprisingly higher than asking. The only wrinkle was that the new "owners" wanted to move in before closing (technically renting it during that period). Turned out that the people moving in were druggies who just wanted to squat until they got evicted. This was a clever way to avoid rental background checks.
Oooh, good to know about that trick-- thanks!


Because they cost money and, unless paid more, have no incentive to move the deal along. I haven't used an attorney to close on a house since 1985 (South Carolina), and he screwed it up. Of course since then we've done our real estate buying/selling in Hawaii & California, which didn't require lawyers.
When I was in CT, it was not necessary nor customary to use an attorney for closing a house (or so I was told). But I hired one anyways. They protect YOUR interest. RE is one of those things where 'you don't know what you don't know' can get you in trouble and you usually have a HUGE amount of money at stake. That is the reason for getting a GOOD RE lawyer. I have used one for each and every of my houses bought/sold. I do make good use of them though... Now that I have the experierce, I have not had to go to the last 2 closings I had. I told the lawyer to bring the check to my house. He had to be there anyways and I learned that I don't (POA to him to sign all docs).

I have heard of a transaction where there was no lawyer for the seller. The buyer got the seller to sign the docs (after putting down 1/3). Took the docs, had them recorded and declined to pay the seller the rest. Morale to the story is, if you don't know what you're doing, you have to have someone helping you who does.
 
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Why would anyone buy or sell real estate without the services of an attorney? :confused:

Because they cost money and, unless paid more, have no incentive to move the deal along. I haven't used an attorney to close on a house since 1985 (South Carolina), and he screwed it up. Of course since then we've done our real estate buying/selling in Hawaii & California, which didn't require lawyers.

As a seller closing without an attorney is a no brainer PROVIDED the buyer is financing the home ... the bank will insist on a clean closing (they have more to loose than anyone else); no need for TWO attorneys. In MA the seller pays for the deed ($100-200) ... just ask the banks attorney to do the work and charge your side of the HUD settlement.

Closed several cash deals as a buyer where an attorney was retained only for my title search ($100-150). Well worth the fee as foreclosed properties can have sloppy paper trails.

But having 2 attorneys at a closing ... charging +$600 each is a waste of $$ IMHO.

I have heard of a transaction where there was no lawyer for the seller. The buyer got the seller to sign the docs (after putting down 1/3).

Sounds like an urban legend .. the buyers attorney would be disbarred.
 
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I don't think that you can take a capital loss on a house that was NOT a business property (i.e. rental unit).

For some reason I thought the OP had inherited the house and his brothers were living in it; on a re-read, they all inherited it.

Since some of the owners lived in it as a main home, then they cant take a loss.
 
Because they cost money and, unless paid more, have no incentive to move the deal along. I haven't used an attorney to close on a house since 1985 (South Carolina), and he screwed it up. Of course since then we've done our real estate buying/selling in Hawaii & California, which didn't require lawyers.

Hmmm...

I would still hire a lawyer top protect my interests. They aren't supposed to move the deal along, I am.

And in NJ, it is actually illegal to buy or sell without an attorney anyway.
 
When I sold my CA rental property 3.5 years ago, one of the downpayment charities was involved. It was truly a charity and was properly registered. I refused to close the deal unless I was made whole on the additional taxes and real estate fees I estimated I was going to incur by upping the sale price. The buyer's agent acted like he didn't understand how the higher sales price was going to cost me money but I held tight and he ended up kicking in about half of his commission. It was much more of a sellers' market back then so you probably don't have the leverage I had.
 

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