Red Badger
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
I agree with this, although if a male friend let me know he’d be interested if DH weren’t around, that would make me uncomfortable and I’d probably want to end it.
+1.
I believe there is such a thing as too much "candor." As a guy, I can't imagine telling a "friend" that I want to be on the short list if hubs tips over. That's creepy.