Hi there, I'm from Alberta
My husband decided after 32 years of working in the railroad to just take early retirement. No planning was done. He had approximately $20,000 credit card debt, our house has a huge mortgage after remortgaging numerous times to help him out of debt. Loves to spend. He retired at age 55. Stayed home 18 months, drove me nuts. Debts got higher. Got an offer to work in Africa for $90,000 per year. Travelled 8 weeks out and two weeks back, first class, accomodations, chauffeur, everything paid. This week he announced that he is quitting, he's had enough of working again. He will be 58 this August. At home, he does not do the laundry, he does not pick up after himself, his household chore is to shovel snow in the winter or cut the grass in summer. We split the mortgage half-half, he pays the utilities, cable and telephone. I pay all the food bill, restaurants we go to, all the renovations in the home, do the painting, cleaning, etc. In the interim, I am 52 years old and have no hopes of retirement till age 60 at least. I'm a smart woman, however is this normal ... I've been married to him for 13 years. I forgot to mention, he enjoys travelling even without me as he does not know what to do with himself. He goes out to restaurants with his buddies, family, friends.
My husband decided after 32 years of working in the railroad to just take early retirement. No planning was done. He had approximately $20,000 credit card debt, our house has a huge mortgage after remortgaging numerous times to help him out of debt. Loves to spend. He retired at age 55. Stayed home 18 months, drove me nuts. Debts got higher. Got an offer to work in Africa for $90,000 per year. Travelled 8 weeks out and two weeks back, first class, accomodations, chauffeur, everything paid. This week he announced that he is quitting, he's had enough of working again. He will be 58 this August. At home, he does not do the laundry, he does not pick up after himself, his household chore is to shovel snow in the winter or cut the grass in summer. We split the mortgage half-half, he pays the utilities, cable and telephone. I pay all the food bill, restaurants we go to, all the renovations in the home, do the painting, cleaning, etc. In the interim, I am 52 years old and have no hopes of retirement till age 60 at least. I'm a smart woman, however is this normal ... I've been married to him for 13 years. I forgot to mention, he enjoys travelling even without me as he does not know what to do with himself. He goes out to restaurants with his buddies, family, friends.