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Age doesn’t matter. I prefer younger women.
Age doesn’t matter. I prefer younger women.
Age doesn’t matter. I prefer younger women.
Ben Franklin disagrees:
"And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement."
Any examination of Benjamin Franklin's affairs starts in his youth. At age 14 in 1720, he was a curious and hormonal teenager who was intrigued by the "doxies" and "ramblers" lining the streets of Boston. When he was 17, Franklin moved to Philadelphia, where he began his printing business and started his courtship of the 15-year-old Deborah Read, the woman he would later marry. But by 1724, Franklin was off to London, and Deborah became an afterthought as he spent his evenings in the beds of countless women of ill repute. He returned to Philadelphia two years later, and eventually married Deborah in a common-law ceremony in 1730. The vows of marriage did nothing to stop his philandering ways.
Benjamin Franklin sex facts show how this esteemed figure in the early United States harbored plenty of personal secrets. Throughout his life, Franklin's sexual appetite was a hot topic of gossip amongst American, British, and French high-society. By the time he passed in 1790, he had left a number of salacious stories behind him. From the "fine establishments" of Philadelphia to the salons of Paris, here are some facts about Franklin’s long and fruitful love life.
Thanks for the caveat. My spouse is obviously still working, we have long- and short-term rentals, I'm still part-time with my former employer and I run my own business consulting part-time/remote. For me, that's FIRE'd.
But do they prefer you?
Old Ben was quite a guy in his time:
https://www.ranker.com/list/benjamin-franklin-private-life/katia-kleyman
And for me, that's definitely not FIRE'd. FI, absolutely. RE - part-time, rentals, and running your own business - no.
Note that I make no judgement on your choice. You like what you do, who am I to say otherwise? Just that that choice is not FIRE'd.
Spouse still working? Well that's a different animal. For instance, if both spouses worked until kid(s) came along then DW becomes a SAHM, is she 'retired' while DH continues to work? To me, if DH continues to work because he enjoys it, DW is retired. If DH has to work to support the household, DW is not retired. She's pursuing other (worthy!) life options.
YMMY.
My wife, who is 4 years younger than I, followed me and my job overseas twice, for a total of 9 years. That interrupted her career, although it gave her more guilt-free time with the kids. At the end of the second stint overseas, I retired at 57. When we moved back to the US, she resumed her career and has since put in 7-1/2 years. In that time I have been her cook, cleaner, garbage man, and Mr Fix-it. But I have also done an average of a few hours per month of consulting with old work colleagues, gone on several big fishing trips per year, done a few large woodworking projects, and play tennis 2-3x per week. Our vacations so far have been short summer trips, mostly backpacking and hanging out in out mountain cabin with family. I think my wife has settled on retiring at the end of this year so we can do some more serious travel together before we get too old to do so.
Overall I think I would have preferred us retiring at the same time, but this hasn't been so bad. I've definitely had time to develop my own routine while she continued to put in her time at w*rk.