Finding friends is tough. I married a fairly anti-social introvert, and over the course of 20 years that (and kids) resulted in us distancing from most of the friends I had. Then in my mid-50's she took a hike (and the kids), and suddenly I didn't have a family to spend time with. Suddenly I was on my own and it sucked. I found a Meetup group for people who enjoy cooking, wine, socializing, etc. That was a lifesaver, and I made some good friends from that group. The group eventually fell apart, but I'm still connected with half a dozen people -- that's almost my only social circle.
People tend to make friends at work or at church. Well I don't do either. I've been self-employed for 30 years, working at home. I haven't attended a church since my sons lost interest.
I used to be in a hiking group and a wine group, but Covid has put a serious damper on that and on most other social activities. Just before Covid hit, I got diagnosed with lymphoma. Fortunately modern treatment drugs are amazingly effective -- but Covid and Cancer is a baaad combination. Turns out people with lymphoma, AND people who are taking the treatment drug I'm on, tend to have near-zero resistance to Covid. AND we don't respond to the vaccine. AND 60s-age men with lymphoma have a 50-60% fatality rate if they catch Covid. Your vaccine protects YOU from getting sick, but you still shed as much virus as an unvaccinated person. So even now, with things getting a little more normal out there, I'm still in serious danger, and I don't know if that will ever change. With Delta, I have to wear a mask any time I'm around other people, so forget the food/drink activities I enjoyed.
So it may be a long time before I manage to join a local pickleball league...
People tend to make friends at work or at church. Well I don't do either. I've been self-employed for 30 years, working at home. I haven't attended a church since my sons lost interest.
I used to be in a hiking group and a wine group, but Covid has put a serious damper on that and on most other social activities. Just before Covid hit, I got diagnosed with lymphoma. Fortunately modern treatment drugs are amazingly effective -- but Covid and Cancer is a baaad combination. Turns out people with lymphoma, AND people who are taking the treatment drug I'm on, tend to have near-zero resistance to Covid. AND we don't respond to the vaccine. AND 60s-age men with lymphoma have a 50-60% fatality rate if they catch Covid. Your vaccine protects YOU from getting sick, but you still shed as much virus as an unvaccinated person. So even now, with things getting a little more normal out there, I'm still in serious danger, and I don't know if that will ever change. With Delta, I have to wear a mask any time I'm around other people, so forget the food/drink activities I enjoyed.
So it may be a long time before I manage to join a local pickleball league...