Oh, I went through that, too. My first week or so the front of my thigh was so sore! But I got past it by about the third week.
My hip was done Sept 18th so I'm at 10 weeks as of tomorrow. This recovery was slower than last time, 5 years ago. I expected to bounce back like Al Roker and I tried not to be disappointed that it wasn't happening like that. But it's not a competition, it's a process. As one of my physical therapists pointed out, I'm now 5 years OLDER! As long as I was seeing progress, I could stay positive.
So as of today, I'm happy to announce that I am CANE FREE!!!!!! The last week or so around the house I would take it with me and just hold it (kind of like a security blanket) just in case I needed it. I still took it to my School Crossing Guard job because there is uneven pavement, curbs and traffic out there and I wanted to feel safe. Today I left it in the car. I'm DONE.
I'm so used to holding it that I feel like I forgot something. It's so nice to be able to use both hands to hold things. And my gait is much better than it's been in years, but I'm still not perfect. I limped for a long time and was quite uneven. I'm so much better now and essentially pain free.
aja8888, I hope you heal and recover well.