Absolutely would NOT go in a million years, for the following reasons..
- Variants. Not sure which vacc you got, but it was just announced yesterday that Israel did a study on the S. African one and found that the Pfizer (they didn't test Moderna, apparently) did not protect that great against the SA one..and we already knew it doesn't protect that well against the Brazillian one. Maybe others. So, you're probably ~95% protected against TWO (original and UK - AKA B.117) variants and not that well protected against many others.
- Unvaccinated kids - this one gets me. We've been told for almost a year "kids don't get it!" and "if they DO get it, they can't pass it to adults!". Both, of course, have been shown to be utter nonsense, which many of us thought from the first moment any of that was said. OF COURSE kids get it. And they pass it to adults. Here in MI, the kids are getting slammed. I personally view kids and young adults as among the singularly most dangerous people I can come into contact with.
- Potential for inside - enough said. If you go inside, you're going into an environment where the virus (if any, presumably so), can hang in the air for hours after being exhaled by a COVID positive person. That's a major no go for me right there.
- My own experiences - DW has a brother that lost a good friend who got COVID at a family event (Thanksgiving, last year). They were sick of "dealing" with COVID so got together. DW's brother's buddy caught it at Thanksgiving..died 2 weeks later. But not until giving it to his wife. She died shortly after hubby. Tragic. Neither were "frail", "elderly", etc. Healthy people can and do die of COVID regularly. To me, NO party is worth the risk. Wife has a VERY social and big family. I've refused to go to ANY event - even outside - for the last year and have avoided COVID to date. Others have not been so lucky..
Just remember that your vaccine lowers your risk..but it is certainly not an immunity idol to keep you get from getting voted off the island. Same procedures (masks, social distancing, etc) we've all done over the last year or so are still needed until we get through this thing, unfortunately. And social distancing probably means parties and social gatherings (which I've read are among the top if not "the" top way this spreads) are, at least for me, a DEFINITE no-go until the numbers are way, WAY down from what they are now..I feel for you having to decide, but there's not enough $$ in the world to convince me to go to a social event or party at the moment..