Nemo2
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The invite says "Black Tie Optional".
I prefer the ones that say "You own a tie? Well, look at Yoouu".
The invite says "Black Tie Optional".
The mother of the bride called DW to chat and told her that she was going to dress "casual". Right. The invite says "Black Tie Optional". I think she's trying to set up DW ..
Walt, we can always count on you for practical suggestion. I'll let DW know.The way out of that is to wear a formal gown underneath the overalls....
I'm not sure! Here, they send fancy invitations to a "Celebration" that doesn't involve getting married. I guess the idea is that they do not want to marry but still want the gifts. Although, I admit, I don't really understand it.
I think we used to call that "going steady".I think that might be a commitment ceremony .You pledge your commitment to each other even though you would not marry them. Very Popular !
What daughter would do this to her parents
What amazes me is how elaborate and expensive the showers, engagement parties, and bachelor/bachelorette parties have become. We have friends who have a son and DIL who have been attendants for about a dozen friends over the last 3 years. When I got married a bachelor or bachelorette party was a night out on the town. Now it's a long weekend in Vegas, Cancun, Cabo, or some other destination. Not affordable at all. Kind of crazy how much is spent on all of this.
Typo?(They expect to break-even with an average of $500 per person cash gifts) ... !
Mom misstepped as she might have finally 'won' and gotten them outWell, two weeks prior the big wedding/reception got called off. That's what can happen when you have a very interfering and very opinionated mother living in the same house as you and your fiance for the past year
They claim it would be embarrassing to not do the same. Thankfully for her dad, niece and BF are paying for it themselves and thankfully they can (barely) afford it. (They expect to break-even with an average of $500 per person cash gifts)
DW can't wait.
I'd rather have a tooth pulled but it will be nice to see the entire family having fun on someone else's dime other than mine for once!
I think that in most states the marriage license is all that really matters. I got married by a guy who got some certificate off the internet, but I'm sure I could have sent the paperwork signed "Mickey Mouse" and it would be just as legal.......... In Colorado you can get a license and marry yourselves...........
Typo?
$500 per person? Hell no!
Yeah thats getting close to the number around here, (NYC), this is the all in price Brides gown, the band, the catering hall, flowers, etc. Not the honeymoon or the diamond rings. People throw around the number 10 grand just for the flowers. I always make a point of pointing out to the schmuck father of the bride that usually paid for everything how wonderful the centerpieces looked.:. I want to let them feel good about that expense.
Yes they can certainly get expensive and I agree probably a waste, but I resemble the "schmuck" comment. I figure how people spend their money is up to them, no? Assuming they can afford it of course.
Sad to think people are guests at happy occasions like weddings that they then find fault with.