retire to nature
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After FIRE'd I feel like I have hard time to control my emotion at times.
Since I don't need daily persona or deal with too many BS, my emotion is pure and amplify. We know we cant be ourselves when we are at work to make for a living.
People would guess retirement would make people more generous and lenient.
However, I can find myself I cant control my stress or emotions well. Since I am relaxed at most of time, if something makes me upset, it amplifies. I am not sure if I have more time to be emotional or off mask of persona
recently, I had a car accident and got a total loss. The adjuster was suck and even refused to give me her email address at the first call. Later, she didnt pay me my rental etc, I got upset and reported to BBB. She was totally lost of professionalism.
Also, I have gotten vision check for eye glasses. The Dr did it wrong I had to do recheck etc.
I am having an issue with my parent. But I cant control my anger or emotion well either.
I hate people lying or gaming, so recently, I called police for one of my rental tenants.
I am not sure if it is FI matter, being arrogant, or RE with too much relaxed, getting upset of interrupted relaxed time.
Do you have any change after FIRE??
Since I don't need daily persona or deal with too many BS, my emotion is pure and amplify. We know we cant be ourselves when we are at work to make for a living.
People would guess retirement would make people more generous and lenient.
However, I can find myself I cant control my stress or emotions well. Since I am relaxed at most of time, if something makes me upset, it amplifies. I am not sure if I have more time to be emotional or off mask of persona
recently, I had a car accident and got a total loss. The adjuster was suck and even refused to give me her email address at the first call. Later, she didnt pay me my rental etc, I got upset and reported to BBB. She was totally lost of professionalism.
Also, I have gotten vision check for eye glasses. The Dr did it wrong I had to do recheck etc.
I am having an issue with my parent. But I cant control my anger or emotion well either.
I hate people lying or gaming, so recently, I called police for one of my rental tenants.
I am not sure if it is FI matter, being arrogant, or RE with too much relaxed, getting upset of interrupted relaxed time.
Do you have any change after FIRE??