I am FI and considering ER soon at age 42 or 43, which would make my kid 3 or 4. My main concern at this point is would I be setting a bad example or failing my child in some way? My spouse is SAH already, so neither parent would be working for the vast majority of childhood. My father retired at 52 and spent his days watching financial news and generally not doing much of anything - I was a bit older at that point and it left a pretty negative impression on me. (Unfairly I'd say now, but kids can be unfair.) I'm a very active person and have lots of things I want to do to replace my career, but still I worry, especially as a new parent who doesn't really know what they're doing yet.
What do you all think? Anyone with a similar experience or thought process?
What do you all think? Anyone with a similar experience or thought process?