I agree with most of the advice given. We expected good grades, at least one activity each year like sports, violin, piano, etc to take up much of their free time. My husband used to say it was to keep them too busy to be on the streets, which was funny, but partly true. We encouraged friendships with their nerdy, intelligent friends by having cookouts, day trips, etc. where their friends could come with us. We participated as a family in a nearby church. We didn’t have to deal with social media and smartphones at that time, but my daughter’s five children aren’t allowed smartphones until they graduate high school. They very minimally have social media required by their school for communication. So far, they have done very well in high school and college.
One thing my 45 yr old son told me this summer is that he lives way below his means, because he noticed that we did that when he was growing up. He listened in to many conversations that my husband and I had about financial strategies to retire early and not have debt. So that is another aspect of how they learn. I’m really proud of both of them being so fiscally responsible.
One thing my 45 yr old son told me this summer is that he lives way below his means, because he noticed that we did that when he was growing up. He listened in to many conversations that my husband and I had about financial strategies to retire early and not have debt. So that is another aspect of how they learn. I’m really proud of both of them being so fiscally responsible.