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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Nope. He likes his navy socks with certain clothes. Yes, really.
Put those certain outfits with the socks!
Nope. He likes his navy socks with certain clothes. Yes, really.
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(speaking of socks; I think I came up with a brilliant sol'n: I saw DH squinting in the predawn light, trying to decide if the socks in his hand were navy or black. Since he only has a few pair of navy socks, and since I fold laundry during the day, when the light is good, I wrote NAVY on a ziplock, and put his navy socks inside. I think that might forestall a headache in the morning...or a mismatched outfit.)
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Are you certain the issue here is the way he values his time vs yours? Could there be some resentment that he still works while you do not?So, how do you set boundaries when your spouse starts to assume you've got infinite free time which can be used for their convenience?
if he likes a scheduled life, well, get his input and make a schedule.
Put those certain outfits with the socks!
before you know it, you're spending all morning ironing your spouse's socks.
Yet again, I thank my lucky stars that I am single.
Are you certain the issue here is the way he values his time vs yours? Could there be some resentment that he still works while you do not?
Yet again, I thank my lucky stars that I am single.
Your original post said this was about a time issue....actually your spouse appears to be very controlling...with a side of O C D thrown in.your biggest challenge is going to be what happens when he's home 24/7.
I think ... clueless, rather than controlling. He honestly doesn't seem to understand that, for example, cooking dinner takes more than 15 minutes. But clueless isn't the right word either. unaware? disbelieving ? incredulous ?
I'll have to think of a better way to describe it.
That's a smart idea. I should do that ... socks in a bag on the hanger. End of confusion.
I think ... clueless, rather than controlling. He honestly doesn't seem to understand that, for example, cooking dinner takes more than 15 minutes. But clueless isn't the right word either. unaware? disbelieving ? incredulous ?
I'll have to think of a better way to describe it.
That was a fake injury..the plan worked
and that's why I'm worried that my retirement will become, "... while you're home today, it's important that we get all the CDs arranged alphabetically ... and the dog kibble color-coded ... and the cobwebs off the shed .... it'll only take half-an-hour or so."
Now, back to the last round of chores before supper.
I saw a guy at work yesterday. He was sitting in the bullpen area, where there are usually younger interns, etc.Nope. He likes his navy socks with certain clothes. Yes, really.