Texas Proud
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Have not read the whole thread and do not plan too....
But, I will pass along something one of my sisters tells me off and on... do not try and control your ADULT kids...
Any stipulations you put on the money is your trying to control them.. if you do not want your money to 'go to waste' then do not give it to them.. done.. if you want to leave them something then do so... no strings, no trust no nothing...
Now, if there are grandkids (did not see in my reading) then of course you can leave money in trust for them...
But, I will pass along something one of my sisters tells me off and on... do not try and control your ADULT kids...
Any stipulations you put on the money is your trying to control them.. if you do not want your money to 'go to waste' then do not give it to them.. done.. if you want to leave them something then do so... no strings, no trust no nothing...
Now, if there are grandkids (did not see in my reading) then of course you can leave money in trust for them...